Real strength
Former U.S. Ambassador to Baghdad, Ryan Crocker, has the strongest insider reflection on the Afghan and Iraq wars 8 years on that I have read to date. This is a must read for anyone concerned with these wars and what they mean for America.
Eight Years On: A diplomat's perspective on the post-9/11 world
"Americans tend to want to identify a problem, fix it, and then move on. Sometimes this works. Often it does not. Of course, imposing ourselves on hostile or chaotic societies is no solution either. The perceived arrogance and ignorance of overbearing powers can create new narratives of humiliation that will feed calls for vengeance centuries from now. What's needed in dealing with this world is a combination of understanding, persistence, and strategic patience to a degree that Americans, traditionally, have found hard to muster.
We have learned much since September 11, 2001, but we are still learning this lesson. As the war in Afghanistan enters its ninth year, with U.S. casualties rising and the Taliban revived, public opinion is turning against what was always, compared with Iraq, our 'good war.' No one, least of all me, has an easy fix to propose. But over the last eight years I was intimately involved with our country's effort to manage its relationship with the Middle East and South Asia. I know that success only comes from a solid, sustained commitment of resources and attention."
I highly recommend this article in its entirety and the video about Ryan Crocker and his long career efforts to end terrorism at the top of the first page of that story. Lots to learn in this column. And much that Ryan clearly has learned from his efforts over the last 8 years.
Ryan is right. Patience is the virtue we are in most need of in our efforts to make us safer, these days. As he says well, building confidence is a long process. Anything solid is built over time.
Patience is not a virtue I come by easily, always, is the truth. But it is that quality that we need, right now. Aggression is a more natural instinct. It is easier to come to anger and react against our hurt or our fear than it is to quiet the heart and bring a calmer, more dispassionate, more thoughtful consideration to our efforts. I am guilty of that former too often to recall. It is likely responsible for my most serious failures in life, is the truth. But much experience and reflection has taught me that it is better to acknowledge that failure than to pretend that it has served me better than it has.
America has failed often over this period. Many Americans would like to believe that it is President Bush who is responsible for their failures. But that wouldn't be honest. President Bush is responsible for his own failures. But we are also responsible for our own.
And the truth is that the aggression that has consumed America in the last 10 years in lieu of the patience and confidence-building that Ryan Crocker describes in this piece is the fault of most Americans. The truth is that the aggression that came to characterize the foreign policy efforts of the Bush Administration and has now come to characterize the domestic policy efforts of the Obama Administration is something that Americans have clamored for loudly in the last 10 years. And no matter how much it fails, we clamor for more.
It is exactly those instincts that led to the rise of Adolph Hitler. A scared, defeated, and desperate population turned to Hitler to discipline a nation and to use any and all means necessary, namely aggression, to force out of existence their problems and the supposed conspirators against their safety and prosperity.
It is one long dark, demented fantasy about aggression and power and what it could and could not do to make people and a nation strong.
And the truth is that America has been indulging a similar fantasy for the last 10 years, but with the thankful benefit of a mature democracy, with divided government, separation of powers, diverse political parties and peoples to check the abuses of power of their counterparts, and, most importantly, the freedom to speak out, to criticize, to call into question, to organize and protest, and to otherwise express their displeasure with this obsession with power among competing players. And we've enjoyed the freedom to go on living our lives while this national drama takes place without having to worry, as the citizens of Germany did, that this fantasy would become our own unintended nightmare.
It is people like Ryan Crocker, and not people like Adolph Hitler or Joseph Stalin, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad or Kim Jong Il, Paul Hill or Malcolm X, or any of the various representatives of the fantasies of power that Americans and peoples around the world have indulged, that represent real strength.
Real strength is not found in bullying our neighbors into submission. Real strength is the patience in engaging one another thoughtfully and honestly about differences and respecting the consciences and choices of our neighbors. Real strength is having faith in our capacity to work together and, in its fullest expression, to love one another, rather than giving into the temptation that aggression offers. As someone who has been given to that temptation, I understand its appeal. I also understand, with much experience, its failure to resolve what thoughtfulness and strong relationships and building confidence in ourselves and one another are better able.
To do so freely is what most people crave, I believe. To not be bullied into that position is what most people want in their deepest hearts, is my belief. If there is any one best explanation for the fact that younger generations seek more freedom than their parents' generation perpetually thinks is good for them or likely to lead in better directions, this is it, I think. To make that possible will involve much love and forgiveness, patience and understanding and letting go of our propensity to try to substitute aggression for trust in our relationships. It is a long and complex lesson that I have confidence that we are learning and will learn, slowly, patiently, with time. Myself included.
And that ability to make choices, even bad ones, and learn from them is what makes America, all liberal democracies, and homo sapiens, as a species, great. There is no other species on the planet that learns as well or as often as homo sapiens. It is a very special feature of our existence as human beings. It is the most special feature of our existence.
It would serve us better, I believe, to appreciate what all that learning has to offer.


