Assholes and opinions, or why believing you can't be wrong means you most assuredly are
The older I get, the less I care how various partisans of any persuasion justify their self-centered circular self-glorifying, except insofar as they have the stronger reasoning to support their thoughts.
Outside of that, people are, generally, assholes with opinions. And on the biggest questions, the weaker the opinion, the bigger the asshole, generally.
If you're wondering why some friends of yours are such unshakeable assholes on this or that question it might have something to do with the fact that they lack real confidence in their own thoughts. People with honest confidence engage people who disagree with them humbly. Like they might be wrong. Because anyone honest knows that's the only honest assessment of anyone and what they know and what they don't.
Assholes with unshakeable opinions are assholes because they just can't even consider that might be wrong. And the reason why they can't consider it, generally, is because it's never even occurred to them that it might be a possibility.
Meaning, they're arrogants sons a' bitches. Arrogant meaning scared. And leaning on ego to compensate.
The Greeks call it hubris. But arrogant sons a' bitches will do just fine by me.
I know. I've been one too many times to count. Wonder if I can do anything else, sometimes.
But if there is one thing I've learned it's that to spend one's life trying to prove to the world that you are right, all the time, and that you couldn't possibly be wrong, about anything, no less, is a sad waste of life.
Because it's the surest sign that you're wrong. And about substantially more than just that, too, likely.
Passionate conviction in anything is not the same thing as being right. And noone cares how stridently you assert otherwise. It's not personal. It just ain't. And the truth just doesn't give a shit how strongly you assert something else.
Neither do I. I never really have. But the more I watch so many of the damn fools that make up this fine world - the ones who run it, the ones who wish they did, and then all the rest of us, too - the less seriously I take peoples' opinions. About anything, really. Except as yet one more possibility in a world of possibilities. And a world that just is and doesn't care what any of us think on the matter.
This damn fool race and it's propensity to call it's chauvinism and cruelty and its general wrongheadedness something better than it is. I just got no patience for it anymore.
Except when people really are trying to learn something new, that is.
That's why young people look so full of hope and promise to their elder, stubborn, bitter, meaner fellowtravelers in this world.
Because, luckily, so many of them are still willing to learn a thing or two in this world. Rather than foolishly hitch their wagon to an ego going nowhere.
It's the only honest way to live. Everything else is one long excuse for why we lack the courage to ever admit we might be wrong about anything in this world.
And what a sad fear that is. The fear that I might be wrong.
Because in the end, the one guarantee we have in life is that we most assuredly are. Wrong, that is. On many more questions than we are right.
And that's the beauty. That we have still have so much to learn in this world.
And what a wasted life it is to stop learning in the vain attempt to futily make that fear go away.
And what foolish tragedy is wasted on such stupid pride.
That's the reason why it's the deadliest sin. For those of us obsessed with the ravages of sin on this world. Pride. It's the deadliest sin because it kills so many of us. For no good goddamned reason, to boot.
Perhaps we can work up something better. Because, with certainty, if we don't, we deserve whatever else we choose.

