Why I value honest discussion
Because shit like this is the alternative.
How the left led us into 9/11
Benjamin Barber introduced me to this little piece of joy on his blog at Huffingtonpost.com. I read his review of Dinesh D'Souza's new book and thought, "Liberal academic, brilliant, but definitely liberal bias, doesn't like Dinesh D'Souza. Big surprise. I guess I'll go over and see what Dinesh has to say."
And then I got over to Dinesh's website, and it turns out that Barber is largely right. Dinesh is kind of off his rocker with most of the stuff that I read and heard on his website.
And this piece epitomizes why intellectually honest discussion matters so much.
Dinesh, like a million liberal writers, does in this piece what intellectually honest political discussion is meant to avoid: stepping too deep into the bullshit.
Dinesh does what I find most distasteful among less intellectually honest and partisan thinking and writing: he blames his opponents for big problems in the world so he can avoid his ideological allies ever having to take responsibility for any of their mistakes.
It is one of the most detestable parts of politics that I can think of. Everyone wants the power, noone wants the responsibility.
And then everyone preaches responsibility at the world.
It's not just Dinesh, though. It's most adults, I'm slowly discovering. It's most people. Intellectual or not.
We're the biggest bunch of bullshitting hypocrits this side of liberal democracy, I'm discovering. All of us. Me included. Our kids have to look at us all and think, "What a bunch of fuckin' liars and hypocrits."
But what I value about honest discussion - about the most intellectually honest scholarly discussions and about the more honest parts of the free marketplace of ideas - is that its meant to cut through a lot of this kind of crap so life isn't such a fuckin' mess all the time.
Life is still a huge fuckin' mess. Largely because of all of the lying and bullshitting, to ourselves as much as to everyone else. And largely because of what bullies and dicks we are, always imposing ourselves on one another and making everyone afraid to just be themselves and say what's really on their hearts and minds.
But it's less a mess because of more honest discussions. Of which this piece by Dinesh should not be counted:).
The reason why the world is such a fuckin' mess is because we are all so fuckin' dishonest. And it is so dishonest because we are such fuckin' dicks, constantly hurting and otherwise trying to get one another. And then our more cynical, dickish natures say, "The reason why I have to be such a dick is because the world is so fucked up." And the reason why the world is so fucked up is because we are all so dishonest because people are such fuckin' dicks. And the reason why people are such fuckin' dicks is because the world is so dishonest. And on and on and on.
You know the reason why nice guys finish last: because the rest of us are such fuckin' dicks.
And there's no end to any of this shit until we start getting more honest about it. With ourselves, at the very least. And with one another, ultimately.
So many of the world's most serious problems are found in this little conumdrum. What dicks we become because the world is so dishonest and we are so dishonest with ourselves. And how dishonest and fucked up the world gets because we are such dicks. And round and round and round.
At some point you'd think we'd face up.
If for no other reason than to just be able to be honest with ourselves and one another and just be ourselves, for real, more with ourselves and with one another.
The dicks of the world are doing their damdnest to prevent that, right now. This is how dicks have done it for the entire history of humanity. To repress their own acknowledgement of their more dickish behavior, and to repress those around them in the process. And to make sure that we lie to ourselves and one another enough that we can all pretend that we are better than we really are. And the most dishonest fact of that tendency is that we all begin to believe it, too often. We all begin to believe the bullshit. Our own and others'.
That's how Nazis and Communists committed all that ugliness. Because good people were too afraid to be honest about what destruction and ugliness all that force and repression reaped.
It wasn't until good people decided to confront that dishonesty - with guns when necessary, in the case of the Nazis, but largely with honesty, in the case of the Communists and with our much more illiberal past and present- and the force and repression which created it, that it finally fell apart.
You know why nice guys finish last? Because we're all such fuckin' dicks. And my experience is that an awful lot of the nice people in the world are generally those with more genuine courage in the world. And the more people are dicks, in my experience, the more cowardly they really are down deep.
And I know that I would, in a million years, rather be a nice guy with more genuine courage than a dick who is really a coward any day of the fuckin' week.
Because that's what courage looks like, for all the pricks in the world who don't know the difference.
That's why I value honest discussion.
Because it takes more courage. Courage that most people don't have, frankly. And times like these separate those with more real courage and those who are more genuinely honest from the fakers.
Here's to the honest people and honest ideas and honest discussions of the world.
We need more of them.
Love,
Ben