Choose wisely
Can I say, after reading news coverage all fuckin' day, this Presidential race is unspeakably fucked up.
We are such fuckin' hatemongers around election time. It is disgusting. And pathetic.
Must we be such shitheads to one another, all in the name of getting power and keeping someone else away from it?
Is it not possible for us to be decent to one another and earn one another's vote, we are so enamoured of our own use of power and so disgusted by those who we disagree with?
Is it not possible for us to even imagine that we might be wrong and those who disagree with us might be right that we would not feel so driven to slander, attack, villify, and otherwise demean those we disagree with and those who represent them among our political leaders?
Is it not possible for us to grow up and stop being such little children, all in the name of protecting our own and ourselves?
Are we not capable of just being the kind of person that we are so afraid that we cannot find the strength within ourselves to just be?
It is not within the realm of possibility to just live out our highest values, to pluck the beam from our own eyes before we pluck the splinter from those of our neighbor, and to trust and appeal to our better angels rather than persistently obsess over our inner demons, our propensity to do bad in a world we want to imagine that we could or should only do good?
Is it not within us to be human, for our political leaders to be human, for those we disagree with to be human, for those we agree with to be human, and to not be so human that our vindictive and destructive tendencies constantly overwhelm our better natures and our more decent concerns?
Is it not possible for us to better?
Of course it is. Obviously. When we're not obsessing with what shitheads we and everyone is. When we're not so afraid of our darker natures, when we are not afraid of ourselves and one another that we are not always acting out that fear on one another, pretending, all the while, that we are, in fact, better than what those darker impulses might betray us to be.
Because the truth is pretty clear.
When we love ourselves and one another, when we embrace our more self-centered natures and those of people around us, we are less likely to act like the kind of children that we have been behaving as, this election season.
The more we embrace ourselves and others, the less we are likely to act like the very sociopaths that we are so afraid of being.
If we want to be better people, we must love ourselves and one another more. It is the same fact of life we have faced since the dawn of humanity. We have just proved more ingenious at deceiving ourselves and one another of what is needed to be better.
It is not being forced to do so by some God, some parent, some government, some teacher, some boss, some lover, someone else outside of ourselves.
If we want to be better, we must choose to do so. And in so choosing, we will do today as we have done since time immemorial. We will choose badly. And then we will choose better. And we will only do so with experience that tells us the difference as much as knowledge of the two.
This election has become a circus of humanity and its most foolish and cowardly instincts. That can only change with some embrace for our folly. And some willingness to become wiser.
That is our challenge this election season. Our vote is completely incidental to that much more fundamental fact of existence.
Choose to be better. Or don't. Those are the options.
Choose wisely.
And if you don't, don't despair. Just make a better choice the next time. Until you do.