Sunday, November 09, 2008

International exchange

A recent exchange I had on an international debate board I visit off and on:

Listening to the coverage of the American election, you'd think that the last eight years didn't happen, internationally speaking, and that all is sweetness and light.

Bullshit.

Regards,
M. Graham


Yeah, that's my concern, Murray. That's why I voted Obama, for all of my misgivings about his economic policies, which I think are bad for everyone. Because I'm concerned about Americans - conservatives, especially, but not exclusively - who are taking the lesson from the last 8 years, "As long as I got the power to do it, what the fuck are you going to do about it?"

A lot of liberals have that mindset, these days, as well. Which is the problem. I have to choose between 2 sets of assholes with the same fucked up logic. I hope Mr. Obama is a step in the right direction, in foreign policy matters, at least.

But I take heart from the fact that it took almost the rest of the century for Britain to give up her empire, long after the notion of empire was discredited in World War II. The idea that democratic power can swagger it's way through problems will also take time to unravel, largely because everyone only seems concerned when someone else is doing it.

I think we're moving forward. Just painfully slow.

After another 4 years, hopefully we will have learned that Democrats are just as likely to run roughshot over people they don't like when they have power. And the politics will reflect that lesson learned. And the parties will adapt to Americans' looking for more freedom to live their lives without such assholes mucking things up all the time.

I have some confidence, Murray, that this is how things will play out, given some time.

In retrospect, it looked like the notion of empire would never end. It took up most of human history. But it most assuredly left the scene, largely as it was discredited in the democratic discussion and the marketplace of ideas. The idea that power can resolve all our problems - the heart of the problem with empire, ironically - will similarly fall out of fashion once people figure out that it is a false god.

But first people have to be willing to give up the false god.

It will take time. And then, like post-World War II and World War I, when the quest for empire had ravaged the lives of millions of people, we will have to move on. Because we'll have no other choice.

It is easy to understand, now, why humanity did so many horrible things, in the past, with power. Because they were afraid. And our fears, I'm beginning to understand, can rationalize almost anything. No matter how irrational and destructive.

Eventually we learn the lesson. That's the one thing we can bank on, Murray.

Help! Help! I'm bein' repressed!

Holy Grail. Favorite scene.

My daily prayer

Jesus in heaven. Is there any way that you can do spiritual corrective surgery on the permanent condition of my head being 6 inches up my big fat ass?

Thank you, Baby Jesus. Say hi to the old man.

Live your life, love your kids

I do sometimes wish that there were a way to force away the tragedy and bad stuff that happens in the world. There just isn't most of the time.

What we are left with is wisdom we have or do not about the world, that we share and do not about this world.

Our kids aren't going to do what we want them to do often. Which is good, if we could give our pride a rest for a moment. It means they will determine their own lives. Which is as it should be. It is their life, in the end, not ours.

What we can do, when all is said and done and we've done everything to offer what wisdom we have to offer and done what we can to be a better example to them, is to live our lives and love them.

Every damn fool notion to the contrary has always fallen apart over the course of human history. And for good reason. Because everyone wants the freedom to determine their own lives. Whether we like it or not.

It's the best thing my parents gave me.

And it is likely the most important thing I will have to offer my kids, when all is said and done.

When I think about all of the things I have to offer my kids, this is the one that my parents offered me that I cherish the most.

Thanks Mom. Thanks Dad and Marilyn.

Thanks to all parents, family, teachers, and friends who let me get life figured out for myself.