All matters are matters of the heart

"Most mistakes with our children, with our spouses, with all family members are not the result of bad intent. It's just that we really don't understand. We don't see clearly enough into one another's hearts.

If we did - if an entire family could develop the kind of openness we're talking about - over 90% of the difficulties and problems could be solved."

- Stephen Covey, speaking of humankind, not just the humankind we are related to