Friday, January 05, 2007

What enlarges and sustains our values?

The craziest thing for me to observe as I watch this period of rationalizing control in the name of freedom is asking and answering the question, "What sustains our values?"

And when I say values, I don't just mean our value for freedom or democracy. I mean all of them. I mean our commitment to gender equity, to racial equity, to equity based on income and needs met, I mean our opposition to slavery and our commitment to universal suffrage and one vote for every person. I mean our commitment to intelligence and education. I mean our commitment to a healthy world, a safe world, and world with as clean an environment as possible. I mean our commitment to economic abundance and shared abundance. I mean our commitment to ethnic and religious equity that we can take less for granted as we watched ethnic and religious sectarianism tear apart Iraq. I mean our commitment to openness and transparency, to decency and humanity, to honesty and hope.

Do most people really believe that such values are sustained primarily, if at all, by laws? By rules? By force? By coercion?

Because the plain reality is that if these values were sustained primarily if at all by laws and rules and force and coercion is that none of them could be sustained at all, for long. They couldn't maintain themselves in the face of opposition from a culture that had not internalized those values, by conscience, mind, heart and soul.

Without a commitment to conscience, mind, heart and soul to ground and give real expression to abstract values and their far more blunt and abstract expression in laws and rules, by force and coercion, these values would never find real life. They would always be tucked away in dusty and little consulted codes of conduct, only to be considered when a violation is alleged, which would be often and regular in a society that had not internalized the values they aspire to pass on.

There can be no doubt, really, that it is conscience and not rules that embody our values, since conscience is what distinguishes between good laws and bad so that they can be amended. There would be no need for democracy were values found in laws, because there would be no need for revision since no other authority could trump legal or political authority.

It is not just the inspiration for a free society, it is the function of a free society and our greatest check against tyranny that conscience trumps laws and rules and other political and legal controls.

Would all of those rationalizing force as a central governing philosophy really collude with Nazi-era laws that mandated the reporting of Jews to the German government? Would they really collude with fugitive slave laws of 19th century America? Would they really collude with laws that imprisoned adulterers, homosexuals, sodomizers, imbibers of alcohol, and heretics to the Church?

And the sad answer to that question is that during another era, many of they would and did. Sadly. And the law was excuse and rationalization for all of it. Sadly. So much human tragedy for so little purpose. And all in the name of human or divine law. Sadly.

We have escaped all of that tendency, thankfully, finally finding the present and forever future balance between freedom and control. We should be thankful for our own unflinching wisdom. It would be difficult to find this balance without such foresight.

But the truth is that, in so many ways, we are just like those past generations, thinking that we have found the right path or balance, convinced of our decency and humanity because of how much more brutal and controlling and indecent past generations were, and convinced of our own unchallengeable wisdom that will sustain itself over the generations that we have summoned because we have finally arrived upon the means of promoting good behavior that has eluded past generations, even as it mimics those eras.

Hubris is how the ancient Greeks referred to this mistake of humanity. Arrogance is a good enough common term.

Do we really believe that force could sustain and enlarge all of those values?

Somehow I doubt it. Especially given its clearly poor historical record on the matter.

But we rationalize it anyway because we are afraid to live without it. I do the same, I think. I'm trying to let it go. To learn where more force or aggression is more appropriate. But to avoid it as much as possible.

I'm probably off the mark like everyone else. But presuming against the use of force and aggression, as much as possible and only using them when they are necessary as much as my forever fallible judgment can render, is a good start, I hope.

It is frustrating to me that we would give such cover to our pretense of infallibility, during this period. And it is more frustrating for me to watch people who least deserve that cover taking the most advantage of it.

Hubris, the Greeks wrote. Cynicism, I would add. They generally go hand in hand, is my experience.

I can only hope that we can slowly grow our way out of them.

Love,
Ben

The Age of Infallibility

The American Interest features a really interesting opening reflection in a current book review.

The Age of Infallibility by John Patrick Diggins

From that review:

"Kevin Phillips, American Theocracy: The Peril and Politics of Radical Religion, Oil, and Borrowed Money in the 21st Century (Viking, 2006), 480 pp., $26.95.

Damon Linker, The Theocons: Secular America Under Siege (Doubleday, 2006), 288 pp., $26.

The history of our era seems to move in tragic circles, strangely analogous to those presented symbolically in Greek tragedy. The democratic nations of the world are involving themselves more inexorably in world catastrophe by their very efforts to avert or to avoid it. . . . Why are democratic nations so tragically committed to this dance of death?
—Reinhold Niebuhr
Christianity and Power Politics (1940)

The war in Iraq, tragic though it may be, provides an occasion for some sorely needed philosophical reflection. Such reflection would soon lead us to the realization that in situations leading up to war, action often precedes thought. Sometimes decisions have already been made before debate begins, and in such circumstances the mind does not so much determine events as respond to them; as history unfolds, philosophy invariably arrives too late to be of any use. “The Owl of Minerva takes flight after dusk”, Hegel warned, leaving us in the dark when confronting the rush of events."

Also, Francis Fukuyama's and the American Interest's editorial blog posts an excellent critique by Patricia Murphy of Democratic and Republican efforts to curb ethics violations in Congress while both parties sacrafice democratic engagement to do so.

Is Pelosi Walking a Tightrope Over Sugarcandy Mountain?

And for a cause that may fail to face the realistic likelihood that ethics violations will always be with us (and I would add that ethics violations are often more likely the more taboo and cynicism fuel temptation).

You know the one biggest reason to enjoy working with kids is that the cynicism hasn't quite taken over most people when it comes to kids. We carry it, as we carry it with others. But we haven't quite given into it with young people. We need that attitude to become more generous for all people, not just kids.

But my observation is that the more freedom people get, the more cynical we become about them and their use of that freedom.

And the irony is that it is our freedom, as evidenced by cultures and governments that embrace repression and suppress freedom throughout the world, that is completely responsible for our good will and good deeds.

The same freedom that offers us the opportunity to do bad offers us all the opportunities that we take advantage of, regularly, to do good.

But we take more advantage of that freedom to do good the more freedom we have to do it with.

I find myself growing more cynical, these days, the more my freedom is limited. Which just maintains the cycle of repression and regressive politics and policy.

Is there a way out of this cycle, I hope?

I can certainly understand a more bleak worldview if there is not. But I can't bring myself to resign myself to it.

Love,
Ben

The why of cynicism

You know why I think that adults, including me, (very sadly, since I'm among the more idealistic of my age, I think, and have always thought of myself as a truer idealist than most people of any generation) grow cynical, I think.

Because we all find out that no matter how much we contribute, how much we give everything that we have, no matter how much we try to be the best people and best professionals and give the best that we absolutely have.

That we are all all expendable. That it is never enough. And that the culprits for this situation is all of us, even and especially the good folks who give their all around us.

To our credit, we are better to children than we are to one another. But then we go on to rationalize and make excuses for why our uglier impulses tell us we should be shittier in our treatment of young people (especially young people in trouble, with the law or otherwise) rather than why our treatment of one another should be better.

None of us seem to matter, really, to one another, except when it is too late. We miss each other when we are gone. And treat each other like shit while we're around (and people like Christopher Hitchens and Robert Novak treat people like shit whether they're here or gone, apparently, so sour were their obituaries for a decent man like Gerald Ford; Hitchens lowballs persistently, so we shouldn't expect too much from someone who holds everyone in such low regard and himself in such high regard).

I don't really know how to help humanity out of this rut, anymore, is the truth. We treat each other so awful. And if you're someone who wants people to be more decent to one another, you just open yourself up to people who feel a need to prove to you just how naive you are about how shitty people can be and treating you shitty, just to prove their point).

We make each other and ourselves unhappy. And then we look at the mess we've created and we say, "You see how shitty people are? That's why I'm such an asshole."

I do my best to change that, but I'm limited by people choosing to always make excuses for what dicks they are, all the time.

Jesus was this very decent guy. The world was full of dicks who captured, tortured and crucified him. And that's about how the world treats decent people.

Billy Budd is Herman Melville's update of the Christ story. Billy is a sweet, idealistic young man. Claggart is a dick with a grudge against the world and something to prove to Billy about how naive his sweetness really is. Claggart sends Billy over the edge and Billy kills Claggart with a blow, by accident. The ship hangs Billy, with the dickish impulses of the captain overruling the decent impulses of the ships' officers. And that's about how the world treats decent people.

We are all, generally, decent people. Even when we're being shitheads. Most of us, at least. And the world shits on us. It flunks us. It fires us. It evicts us. It throws us out. It puts us in our place. It tries to prove why the selfish or destructive impulses of some are more clever than the more decent impulses of others. And it tries to prove why the self-righteous impulses of many of us are smarter than the more understanding impulses of others.

And that's about how the world treats decent people.

And so we grow cynical in a world that treats us like shit. Or threatens to. So much that we forget what it was like to be appreciated when we volunteered to do good efforts out of our generosity or on our honor or our sense of doing good in the world.

And that's the why of cynicism, I think.

I've never wanted to give into it. The cynicism. But I do have to say that it sure has a way of making it's point.

I've got to believe there's something better out there. Even as a possibility for how we might be.

But the reality is too goddamn depressing to just accept as the only or best option.

I've got an office to clean up. Have a good weekend.

Love,
Ben

Why I've lost faith in the world

I used to think highly of people and the world. And especially public service.

When I was in high school and college, the world seemed like a bright, decent place to live. I looked for peoples' better natures, and generally saw good in peoples' efforts. And public service seemed like one of the more important ways that you could contribute to others and the public good.

I've not convinced anymore that it matters.

The reason is because I'm fairly convinced, at this point, that people are, as a rule more than as an exception, fairly shitty toward one another. It's perhaps the most important rule of human affairs. And public service is just as full of people who are shitty and is surrounded by people who are as shitty (Christopher Hitchens and David Horowitz come to mind, here) as anywhere else in the world. It involves very little money unless you get a lot of celebrity exposure or powerful connections that you can exploit elsewhere. People are always complaining about it, no matter how well it is done. No leader or civil servant is ever doing enough. Ever. Except by people constantly patting themselves and others in their group or ideology on the back and desparaging the efforts and contributions of other groups and ideologies.

It's full of low-minded, petty people with low-minded, petty priorities as much as any other field, no matter how important the big priorities in respective fields might be.

Noone is ever wrong, ever. In public service or anywhere else in life, really. Which is amazing because there's so much that goes wrong. And yet noone can ever be big enough to acknowledge that it might be their ideas or their way of handling things that are wrong. Wrong is how you describe other people and other groups. People in your group always have it right. Or I do, at least.

And it's everywhere. It's in academia and journalism and writing and teaching and more thinking-oriented careers as much if not more than other fields. Noone can ever admit that they might be wrong, for fear of losing face or looking weak or stupid (which is ironic, because the people in life who have the hardest time with admitting they are wrong are, in fact, people who are the dumbest, the least intelligent; by definition, really, since that's what makes them so dumb).

But the one thing you can count on in public service is that they never think they're wrong, they always want the power to make sure that others don't think they're wrong, either, or at least they do what the fuck their told whether they think they're wrong or not, and that public servants are not, typically, to be bothered with seriously and rigorously questioning their own thinking. Even many academics, sadly, where rigor is most expected and generally maintained. And that definitely includes many of the Ph.D.'s who take up more formal public service like politics, as much as Ph.D's in less formal public service like teaching, writing, and researching.

I don't really trust anyone to make any choices for me, anymore, is the truth, no matter how noble their intentions. And public service is a lot of people making choices for a lot of other people. I appreciate people who make important decisions that have to be made. And I appreciate people making decisions working with me on various projects. And I appreciate that someone has to make the decisions that come with power and public service. But I just don't trust others to make decisions for me, anymore, is the truth. Not just because they do such a bad job of bumbling it, as this war seriously demonstrates. But because noone can ever just take responsibility for their mistakes, including the mistake of treating people so shitty, and acknowledge it because we treat them like such complete and total shit when they do so that most people are afraid to take responsibility, is the truth.

We are a shitty, nasty, mean-spirited, self-centered lot, much of the time, is the truth. Humanity has so much potential that just falls flat, perpetually, because we just can't find it in ourselves to stretch beyond our petty, nasty worldviews and cynicism. And so we perpetually make the world shitty for others, not satisfied in feeling shitty, ourselves. And then, after we get done making it so goddamned shitty, we look at the mess we've created and we say, "See what a fuckin' mess the world is?"

And the whole world just has to shake it's head, "Yes," because it's obvious what a mess we've made of it, even though almost none of us take serious responsibility for the really big messes that we've created.

And we don't take responsibility because we're afraid of being treated like shit for it and we treat people like shit because they don't take responsibility and we don't take responsibility because we don't want to be treated like shit for it and we treat people like shit because they won't take responsibility and on and on and on and on it goes into perpetuity because we can't even imagine that maybe the reason that people don't take more responsibility is because we treat them like such shit.

I hate it. But I don't know what to do about it other than what I do now, which is write and talk and teach about it. And I'm not convinced after having done both for several years, now, that people really want to change all this. Because the solutions just seem so ready-made as long as you avoid this central problem of how shitty we treat one another. A central problem that I have no solution for except the obvious: we need to come to terms with our shittiness towards one another and take responsibility and cut it out and treat people as least shitty as possible when we face difficult problems with one another.

I used to think highly of public service. Politics, teaching, journalism, writing, scholarship, the whole lot.

But lately, all these fields have been giving cover to a notion that people learning to stop thinking for themselves, so much, and just learn to do what the fuck they're told, a notion that I just can't get behind, no matter how much I try. I understand why people want this. I work with kids every day, who never want to listen to a goddamn thing you say, no matter how important, valid, or dead on. I just don't understand why people think it will work or that it somehow promotes more intelligent engagement or solutions or why people seem to think that all the controversy around various solutions will somehow get resolved if you can somehow get your way and just prove to the world what a better place it can be if people would just do what the fuck they were told.

I've lost a lot of faith in the world in the last 5 years, is the truth. And the world, truth be told, has earned every bit of the lost faith.

Love,
Ben

The inescapable fact of free will

Today, I had a really good experience.

I have a degree/certification requirement with my employment that I have to complete to keep my job. I have to finish my Master's Degree in Special Education. It's a long story, but I've had a crazy time with my current program. But if I'm not able to get enrolled this semester, then I may lose my job next year. I think my school and my district would be losing a really terrific teacher. But they would also be losing money the district receives for teachers (it's a fairly arbitrary requirement, but so many of the Federal regulations we face are fairly arbitrary). I'm doing everything I can to get it done. But I've run into a million snags in the process.

And the experience has totally helped me come to terms with choices. Choices amidst uncertainty. My choices, the choices of other people, the uncertainty of where the best choices lie, the uncertainty of even the most intelligent reflection on life.

I've totally come to terms, today, with the fact that no matter how much good and even smart, decent people try to make the best decisions -- individual decisions, decisions that impact an organization like a school, even decisions that impact a country or an international community -- that there is always uncertainty about what the best choices really are.

And coming to terms with that fact helps validate Abraham Maslow's argument that the more freedom people experience, the better choices they make. Not because they make good choices all the time. They can't. That is not possible, because it would involve no experience or understanding of the alternatives.

I've just come to terms with the fact that no matter how much you try to control or limit peoples' freedom or determine their choices, each person's life and all of our lives is ultimately a function of our independent and interdependent choices. There is no escape from that fact of life because it is not artificial human convention. It is a fact of life that is inescapable. And equally inescapable is the fact that noone, ever, no matter how smart, now matter how experienced, no matter how mature, or decent or good or whatever, nooone knows, with certainty, what the best choices look like.

We all believe that we know, at some level. But the truth is that noone knows with certainty, and the smartest people, I think, understand that better and carry more humility, as a consequence, than those who are less familiar with those choices and reflect less on their choices.

It doesn't matter what we know or what experiences we face in life or how good we are. None of that matters. We all make the best choices we know how, period, given our
understanding, knowledge, experiences, reflection, influences, support, etc.

And knowing that makes me much more sympathetic to a uncertain and often confused humanity trying to make choices and not really always knowing what to do.

Good choices and bad choices are an inherent function of our life and learning, as human beings. Our unique capacity is our ability to make them, reflect on them, learn about making them better, and improving our choices based on our capacity for intelligent reflection. Beyond that, we just keep learning until we are not learning anymore.

When I am frustrated with our failures, as individuals and as a community of people, I can reflect on the fact that no matter how foolish or stubborn our choices seem, especially our inability or unwillingness to reflect in the deepest ways on our shared problems, that people are making the best chioces they know how, given, as well, the million rationalizations and excuses that we give and the million pressures, controls, and limitations we experience in making better choices.

I may think that the whole world is embracing a bad idea. The democratic marketplace of ideas is not some magic elixir from which good choices and good ideas always come forward. They are found after so many bad choices being made that finally better choices are stumbled upon. This is what that Israeli diplomat meant when he said that governments make all the wrong decisions until they get to right ones. Because people, not just governments, are not genies or clairvoyants. They are human. Forever subject to the limitations of their understanding, good and bad. And our limitations, our humanity, is a limitation of being human, not a limitation of the concept of freedom and free will. Free will, and all of its pitfalls, including so many mistakes and bad choices and failures, is an inherent and inescapable feature of our humanity and our experience as humans.

I've got bathroom duty to get to. Have a good day, everyone:).

Love,
Ben

Thursday, January 04, 2007

Learning

Do you know what the amazing thing about life is?

Your teachers were right. It is the learning that matters:).

Love,
Ben

Repression

A world of repression is a world of lying. To ourselves and to one another. But especially to ourselves.

Repression means hurting people to get your way. And the hurt results in people lying to themselves and one another about who they really are.

The sad paradox and self-fulfilling prophecy is that the hurt leads to the lying leads the cynicism leads to the pain unresolved leads to the hurt leads to the lying leads to the cynicism leads to the pain unresolved leads to the hurt, etc., etc., etc.

The only way out of this cycle, the only real way forward, the only genuine progress is to end the repression and the hurt and the lying and the cynicism and the pain unresolved.

And the only way to end that cycle is to end the hurt.

Love,
Ben

Bullying

All we can be is ourselves, and learn and grow.

Our biggest problems in the world come from our propensity to bully instead of coming terms with this fact of life.

I never want to get used to bullying. No matter who it's coming from.

It shortcircuits and interferes with learning, which is the only path to where we need to go in life and and it's the only path to life, period, as a matter of fact more than a matter of aphorism.

And it perpetually makes my life miserable in the meantime, though it becomes easier, in one respect, as I lose respect for the people who do it to me or others.

I think I'm beginning to understand why adults say they like a nice kid. Because they're easier to bully.

Adults lie when they say they don't tolerate bullies. The truth is they don't tolerate other bullies. It cuts into their action. And that is a truth independent of ideology, religion, nationality, gender, race, ethnicity and definitely level of education.

It'd be nice to have world where bullying wasn't the accepted means of changing situations you don't like. Come to think of it, it would be the most important change we could make.

Love,
Ben

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

Proof that scholarly aspirations can't outclass a sixth grade education and ounce of horsesense

"Loyalty to petrified opinion never yet broke a chain or freed a human soul."

"Humor is the great thing, the saving thing. The minute it crops up, all our hardnesses yield, all our irritations and resentments flit away and a sunny spirit takes their place."
What Paul Bourget Thinks of Us (1899)

"You cannot depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus."

- Mark Twain

Mark Twain persistently reminds me that my and largely everyone's greatest sin is not something as grandiose as hubris. It is common self-importance, best cured by a daily reminder that everyone's toilet stinks, even in ivory towers.

I need to do more writing that's from the soul, that has more wit and less pretense that I know more than I do (the most important rule of my short life is that almost all people know far less than they pretend). The world is full of people claiming more wisdom than their fair share. That pie is largely taken and would probably give me indigestion besides.

I'm glad I have my straight writing; it makes it clearer for people that I have more than stories and parlor tricks to share and that I honestly care. And that it's not ideas for making things better that are in short supply. It's the courage to face the failures of our older ideas that we eat like comfort food when our supply is running low and we have a craving for empty calories. I offer up my insight even as I bumble through life like every other simpleton with modest abilities and less humble self-opinion. Humor helps me remember better that I nor anyone else is anything more and generally much less than all of that.

I hope my work will impress scholars. But scholars don't build bridges or teach ABC's or make the streets safe. I'm probably better off making sure that a good portion of my work entertains children and makes time go by quicker for adults in other peoples' bathrooms.

Human beings are a sad, sad lot. Someone's got to cheer them up. And let them know that despite themselves, there's hope yet.

Love,
Ben

"The rule is perfect; in all matters of opinion our adversaries are insane."
Christian Science and the Book of Mrs. Eddy (1899)

"Look at the tyranny of party--at what is called party allegiance, party loyalty--a snare invented by designing men for selfish purposes--and which turns voters into chattles, slaves, rabbits, and all the while their masters, and they themselves are shouting rubbish about liberty, independence, freedom of opinion, freedom of speech, honestly unconscious of the fantastic contradiction; and forgetting or ignoring that their fathers and the churches shouted the same blasphemies a generation earlier when they were closing their doors against the hunted slave, beating his handful of humane defenders with Bible texts and billies, and pocketing the insults and licking the shoes of his Southern master." The Character of Man, Mark Twain's Autobiography (1924)

"Sometimes I wonder whether the world is being run by smart people who are putting us on, or by imbeciles who really mean it. "

"Everything human is pathetic. The secret source of humour itself is not joy but sorrow."

"Humor must not professedly teach, and it must not professedly preach, but it must do both if it would live forever."

This is why I don't trust Democrats or Republicans or power

Democrats to start without GOP input

It's typical. It's arrogant. And it's exactly why I don't trust politics to fix most problems.

E.J. Dionne cheerleads these efforts with a recriminatory tone that typifies E.J.'s partisan work, these days. And which typifies why I don't trust so many liberal journalists, activists, nor politicians, these days.

Paublo Friere was so right. One group oppresses another, and the other group wins power only to look to oppress their oppressor. It's an endless, sad, pathetic cycle.

I am convinced that there is no way out of this cycle than to transcend this ugliness, in the same way that Protestants and Catholics found it within themselves to transcend their ugly power battles and civil wars during the 17th century. There is no way out of this cycle, I don't believe, except for looking deep within ourselves for something greater than who we are, today.

And I want no part of either this effort at liberal dominance or any conservative backlash that follows. I don't want to be in between or in the middle.

I want an honest political center that transcends this ugliness for good. I want people and politicians who listen to one another more than they take self-righteous stands. I want political observers and activists and scholars and journalists and leaders who genuinely engage one another with an genuine openness to the idea that they might be wrong and that their knowledge of their propensity to be wrong should be the most important self-check on their tendency to turn to power to resolve problems of any of the checks that they might face in a democracy.

I want all people to hold themselves accountable to the strongest standards of policy thought, where their fallibility figures larger than their propensity to get things right, all the time. And where fixed and rigid methods of handling problems are looked on with much skepticism for this reason.

One line from the Post article captures the problem well:

"For clues about how the Democrats will operate, the spotlight is on the House, where the new 16-seat majority will hold absolute power over the way the chamber operates."

What was it that Lord Acton said about power and absolute power?

He was right.

We can do better. But it means being better and trusting one another to be better more and confusing our cynicism for realism less.

Thomas Hobbes had a fundamental choice in the 17th century: to concede to the cynicism of a world racked by religious self-righteousness, sectarianism, and civil war, or to imagine a better world.

Hobbes chose the only realistic route.

To imagine a better world.

Love,
Ben

Sunday, December 31, 2006

Doing good versus looking like you're doing good in the world

I was having a quiet and sweet moment of reflection on Brandi's and my relationship, tonight, as I listened to Dar Williams' Out There Live album.

I thought about a more relaxed and less melodramatic future moment when Brandi and I might catch up. And what I might say.

It occurred to me that Brandi's biggest weakness (she'd kill me for writing this publicly, but noone reads my blog anyway:) was that she was far too concerned about how she looked to others rather than how she felt about herself.

I once really fucked up and made reference to how others perceived her family and their fighting to make a point that she and her family, like me and my family, clearly had a problem with fighting. We both had a serious problem with fighting was the truth, and the only good that came of bringing up family was to illustrate that this was a generational problem for both Brandi and I and that we both had responsibility in the issue.

It was a stupid argument, like almost every argument that Brandi and I had, in retrospect. And I feel bad about it, in retrospect, because it exposed a weakness for Brandi that I was not looking to expose: her fear that others thought badly of her or her family.

I love her family, is the truth, though I'm sure I am a distant and probably not terribly missed memory for her family (except for, perhaps, her sister Sarina, who I was somewhat close with), particularly her mom and grammy who I think thought that I was a trouble-maker who wouldn't hold down a job because I was too outspoken and not responsible enough (the truth was that I was a terrible organizer and time manager, at that point, because I didn't understand, at the time, the importance of either; I'm getting better the better I understand both).

And I just thought about what it was that was so different about Brandi and I that pried us apart. The fighting was an unfortunate commonality that I think I have largely overcome (I'm much better about giving people shit and gently expressing disagreement and saving tough and serious disagreement for important stuff that I can express as nicely as possible, but bluntly when necessary).

But one thing that was very different between Brandi and I that is very different between me and most people, truth be told, is that I am (and was) a lot less concerned about what others think about me than Brandi was/is. Brandi was defensive, as was I too much of the time, but not generally as much as Brandi. Brandi had a really hard time taking criticism or feedback and was very skilled, verbally, at deflecting it. I was not terribly skilled at giving it when I was younger, which may have worn on her. I've gotten much better and think I'm pretty good at it, today, really. It's one of my bigger strengths as a teacher, I think.

But, in the end, Brandi and I were most different in our capacity to live lives for ourselves rather than for others, I think. Where Brandi was more concerned about what others thought about her, poverty and some serious self-confidence just prepared me, better, I think, for a life where I could be myself and be more independent-minded and not be so dependent on others' views of me for what I thought or thought of myself.

I still think Brandi is one of the most confidenct, intelligent, decent, and passionate people I have ever met. Just not as much as me on any of these counts, and on the count of confidence, in particular. Brandi would likely acknowledge this if you caught her in a moment where she wasn't feeling threatened.

It's sad. I never really thought anything bad about it when she and I were friends and when she and I were dating. I just thought it was kind of vulnerable and endearing.

But now I can see that there is a dark side to this kind of insecurity. That it is always seeking ways to deflect attention from itself, to change the subject, and to avoid its own presence. It's always looking, fruitlessly, for ways to fill itself up with false pride and self-righteous assertion and positive image and other things to make one look good rather than being good, more, for real.

It's a common insecurity, really, that everyone, including me, is subject to, and that Brandi is actually far better at confronting than most people I've met in my life.

I now recognize that this is the reason why perception has gotten such discussion in the last 6 years or so. Because the truth is that most people are more concerned with how they look to others than with how they really are, sadly.

I have been more concerned with this, in the past. But I always kind of aspire to be the guy in Footloose who owns the barn across the city line and who wants to let Kevin Bacon and his friends dance, no matter what folks in town think. I just would rather follow my own drummer, generally, than follow the crowd. Brandi likes to follow her own drummer, too. But she sticks closer to the crowd than I do. And she feels less safe veering off course, even if it's a better path.

It is also what makes Brandi more concerned with how others perceive her than I am.

When I think about that, it's a pretty good reason that we were probably not made for one another. Brandi felt safer with people who kept her closer to conventional paths for life.

And I was just too independent in my thinking and in my life to live any other life but the one less traveled.

I probably will be happy making a life with a woman more like me, in this regard. But I miss Brandi. I miss our friendship. I miss knowing how she is doing. I'll miss not keeping up with her life, her kids and family, and just day-to-day interactions.

I'm sure that I will marry someone who is much more confident and independent in her life. But it would nice to know how my friend is doing in her life, despite the fact that she chose a different path.

When Brandi and I were dating, I was so in love, I would have given anything to have our love work out.

Now, with some perspective on Brandi, while I would still do almost anything to sustain real love in my life and relationships, I would never give up my independence for her or any woman. I want someone who can be independent with me and think for herself with intelligence, compassion, and understanding, not someone who has to put her finger in the air to figure out how she thinks about life.

I had that with Brandi better than I have experienced with any woman, up to this point. But in the end, it was not a commitment that Brandi could maintain, I don't think. Who knows what Brandi was/is thinking or was her rationale for leaving for good; Brandi doesn't share it and she's not around anymore to correct the record.

And the more I think about it, the more that explanation makes a lot of sense, the more I think about the kinds of people Brandi was trying to fit in with, and whose opinion - Greg's family, in particular, who seemed kind of snotty and too monied with too little purpose - I could really give two shits about.

I definitely need someone in my life and someone to help raise our children who is not so consumed. I need someone who is more honestly confident in herself and her own independent thoughts and judgments.

I just thought that person was Brandi, and I was disappointed when it became clearer that she was not choosing that kind of life.

As I write about it, I can see that insecurity in myself, as well. Something to let go of, I think. Because the truth is that noone really gives a shit how much money you make or what car you drive except out of envy, which is no good, or when they are looking to find out how they can, fruitlessly, fill that same insecurity in their own life.

I want to fall in love and spend my life with someone not so wrapped up in all that bullshit. And the truth is that this is the kind of person I would want to be with, no matter how much or little money I had. Perhaps I can start by looking at my own insecurities, in this regard, and work at being the kind of confident person that I would like to find in a woman in my life.

The truth is that doing good is not the same thing as looking like you're doing good. And doing good in the world is the only thing that's worth two shits. Because looking like your doing good, especially when you are not, is driven by fear, not by genuine confidence or a genuine concern for doing good. And looking like you're doing good lacks substance that doing good doesn't have to worry about. And, far too often, looking like you're doing good means people lying about what real good they are doing.

And in a million years, I would rather be someone who is doing good than someone who is trying, more, to look like they are doing good. And in a million years, I would rather spend my time with people like this. Especially the woman that I want to spend the rest of my life with.

And I don't give a shit where that lands me in life, as long as I get to keep doing some real good in this life, of some kind, and maintain some semblance of a relatively comfortable life. I wouldn't mind having one person in my life who might more genuinely support and challenge me in that effort. But other than that, I really couldn't give two shits what others might think except insofar as they could persuade me that I am wrong about my general outlook on life or that I'm a kook who needs to humble himself in the face of far better understandings of the world and people.

I wanted Brandi to be that kind of person. Who knows. Maybe she still will be that kind of person. I can only hope so:).

I better get to bed, here:).

Happy New Year, everyone:).

Love,
Ben

I think I'm beginning to understand why the life and the democratic marketplace get so skewed

Smart is not popular. Neither is love, necessarily. And mass appeal is the key to money and power.

And the truth is that so many people, if not most people, are kind of heartsick, lost in all kinds of cynicism and hurt and pain. Most serious issues that affect our lives are matters of the heart. That's why Maslow is a much better person to reflect on the larger issues in the world than so many political observers. Because he understood this better. And because he understood, better, that matters of the heart are best addressed with the heart, not with power.

But most people don't take matters of the heart nearly serious enough, I don't think. Because it hurts. And escaping is so much easier for so many people.

So ambitious people who want to stay close to money and power play to the lowest common denominator, providing every means of escape that people might need. Whether its smart or loving or not.

And hence a world distorted by our obsession with what's popular and thus brings the money and power.

Popular fades and changes quickly. And clever, ambitious people follow those trends to keep up with the money and power. Because the obsession with money and power seems to compensate for the dissappointment with a world full of pain and its many, many sources than does coming to terms with that disappointment.

And generally people who take this path, and all of us, really, lose track of themselves and ourselves in the process.

You know what the most important reason for me not to follow those trends is? Outside of wanting to do work that actually does some good, at some point, whether it's popular or not?

Because I don't want to lose track of myself. And that's worth a lot more to me than any money or power.

And I want to spend my time with friends and family and a woman and kids who don't lose track of themselves. Because money and power is not where they are centered (my parents and some of my immediate family have some work to do in this regard, but they're getting better).

That's the best reason to teach where I teach, to do the work I do, to make the chump change I make, to do the writing that noone reads (that noone reads yet, I can only hope) and to care about a lot of stuff that most people either don't care about or take for granted, generally.

Because it keeps me honest.

As much as I actually like most people and pop culture and pop music and keep up with popular trends as much as the next person, I'd rather be honest, and know my shit stinks just like everyone else, than I would be close to all that money and power and mass appeal any day of the week.

It matters more to me to be myself than it does to get credit or the rewards. Because no credit or rewards that I have ever gotten in my life have been more important than that. One of the advantages of getting a lot of both early on in life, I suppose. But mostly just a function of caring more about me than about how people think about me. And knowing that the latter is a sad and lonely way to live.

And knowing that I'll only ever find someone who really loves me for me if I can be myself, more often than not, in their presence. And that I can only love my wife and kids and friends and family, for real, when I love myself enough, for real, that I'm willing to embrace who I am over pretending to be something else for others.

And that is the secret to a happy life. No question about that in my mind, at this point.

Good guys finish last because they keep their focus on doing good, and not on rigging the game in their favor.

But good people finish first in all the things that matter most. And that is why they are the folks from which progress flows.

Love,
Ben

Saturday, December 30, 2006

Pride, terrorism, and democracy

A new political journal I just encountered, tonight, Democracy, has an excellent article detailing a very persuasive case for pride and humiliation as the basis for terrorist movements.

A Matter of Pride

What is really powerful about Bergen and Lind's analysis is that they go beyond a very persuasively argued case made by several scholars that poverty is not the cause of terrorism, as many liberal activists, journalists, and others have claimed to a very persuasive positive case for pride and humiliation being the basis for terrorist movements.

"What motivates someone to join these revolutionaries, terrorists, and murderers, if not economic conditions? In a word, humiliation. Look again at Nazi Germany. While economically weak in between the world wars, what really motivated many to embrace Nazism was that they lost World War I, and the conditions of that loss. Hitler’s goal, supported by much of the German elite and the vast Prussian officer class, was to reverse the verdict of World War I and proceed to create a Eurasian empire capable of dominating the world.

No concessions by the Western democracies short of acquiescence in National Socialist imperialism would have satisfied Hitler and like-minded Germans. Indeed, the outcome of World War I enraged Arab nationalists as well as German nationalists–and it still does today. Bin Laden sees the Sykes-Picot Agreement, which led to the carving up of the Ottoman Empire, as the beginning of Arab humiliation. For bin Laden, the Sykes-Picot Agreement, like the Versailles agreement for Hitler, is a humiliation that must be avenged and reversed: "We still suffer from the injuries inflicted by … the Sykes-Picot Agreement between Britain and France which divided the Muslim world into fragments," he said.

The central role of communal humiliation in inspiring terrorism is the key finding of University of Chicago political scientist Robert Pape’s study of suicide bombers, Dying to Win. According to Pape, two factors have linked Tamil, Palestinian, Chechen, and al Qaeda suicide bombers. First, they are members of communities that feel humiliated by genuine or perceived occupation (like the perceived occupation of the sacred territory of Saudi Arabia by virtue of the presence of U.S. bases, in the eyes of bin Laden and his allies). Second, suicide bombers seek to change the policies of democratic occupying powers like Israel and the United States by influencing their public opinion–in a sense making the occupying power suffer the same level of humiliation they have felt.

The "humiliation theory" of radical violence helps explain why so many terrorists come from middle-class or wealthy backgrounds. Unlike economic deprivation, national or religious humiliation can be painful to all members of a community. In fact, communal humiliation is likely to aggrieve the affluent members the most, precisely because their freedom from a day-to-day struggle to survive liberates them to brood over slights to the community in which they are natural leaders. It may also explain why so many are willing to sacrifice innocent bystanders for their cause. They are fighting for an abstract idea of national, ethnic, or religious pride, not the masses.

To be sure, humiliation can be an outgrowth of poverty. New York Times columnist Thomas Friedman has suggested a variant of the deprivation theory, citing the sense of personal and collective humiliation associated with poverty: "Sure, poverty doesn’t cause terrorism–no one is killing for a raise. But poverty is great for the terrorism business because poverty creates humiliation and stifled aspirations and forces many people to leave their traditional farms to join the alienated urban poor in the cities–all conditions that spawn terrorists." This has the merit of making humiliation a possible intermediary between poverty and political violence. But the possibility of a connection between poverty and humiliation nevertheless fails to provide a sufficient cause. A 2002 UN study of the Arab world showed that it has the second-lowest per capita growth of any region worldwide, which seems to support the deprivation thesis. But consider that while sub-Saharan Africa has done even worse economically, and while it has been the location of major terrorist attacks (the bombing of the U.S. Embassy in Kenya by al Qaeda, for example) and is the home of 160 million Muslims, the region has not given birth to either an indigenous terrorist group or a radical ideology. To be sure, impoverished Sudan briefly served as a base for al Qaeda’s (overwhelmingly affluent) Saudi and Egyptian leadership. But it was never more than that. It will always be the case that well-organized, well-funded, and well-educated terrorists will make use of failed states, but those states are rarely if ever the source of terrorism. As historian Walter Laqueur has noted, "In the forty-nine countries currently designated by the United Nations as the least developed hardly any terrorist activity occurs." And in the same way that poverty is never the primary cause of terrorism, prosperity is hardly the cure. Alexis de Tocqueville was only the first of many to recognize that revolutions often occur in times when populations experience rising expectations about living standards. At least in some societies, the diffusion of wealth and education may help radicals recruit new allies."

The amount of education and the generally affluent backgrounds of many if not most terrorist leaders makes poverty a fairly unpersuasive cause of terrorism, even as poverty may be among many hardships experienced by populations that support and rationalize terrorism, and Bergen and Lind make a powerful argument in this vein.

But what is particularly powerful about these authors' analysis is their argument that pride and humiliation from military, economic, political, and/or ideological defeat or failure is rationalized as a basis for violence and political conflict. It's a very powerful analysis because it explains well left and right wing terorrism and political violence (and I would add much political and ideological conflict, as well), and, strangely enough for an author like Michael Lind who has described himself as a "radical centrist," their recommendations are "anti-radical" as much as anti-terrorist.

"Regardless of where they stand on this debate, it is clear to most that no conceivable concessions, short of acquiescence to their scheme of expunging Western influence from the Muslim world and bringing Taliban-like regimes to power throughout it, can appease bin Laden, his followers, and his allies. Moreover, "Marshall Plans" for the Middle East, however justified they may be on other grounds, will not make al Qaeda and its sympathizers feel less humiliated. For instance, as a result of the 1978 Camp David peace accords the United States has transferred tens of billions of dollars to Egypt. This transfer of aid coincided with the worst period of terrorism in Egypt’s history; Islamist terrorists assassinated President Anwar Sadat in 1981 and killed more than 1,000 other Egyptians during the 1990s.

The first priority, therefore, of an anti-radical strategy must be defending the people, territories, and interests of the United States and other targeted regimes against terrorist attacks. Passive defenses to keep terrorists out are important, along with active security measures. Israel has successfully reduced the infiltration of suicide bombers by means of its security fence, and Saudi Arabia is building a fence of its own to prevent terrorists from crossing into and out of Iraq. While making it more difficult for terrorists to inflict damage, the United States must work with other nations, including unsavory ones, to apprehend jihadists if possible and kill them if necessary. The military has a role to play in some circumstances, but this is primarily a task for international police and intelligence collaboration. Disrupting clandestine cells and networks is particularly important, because of the role of peer-group socialization in the making of jihadists.

While bin Laden and his allies must simply be defeated, their appeal to potential new recruits can be limited by policies that reduce feelings of collective humiliation in the Arab and Muslim worlds. According to a recent National Intelligence Estimate, the American occupation of Iraq is now inspiring jihadists in the way that the Israeli occupation of the Palestinian territories, Russian control of Chechnya, and Indian rule over Kashmiri Muslims long have done. Ending the humiliating occupation of Muslim populations by non-Muslim nations will remove some of the major grievances that jihadists use as a recruiting tool. Conversely, to perpetuate these deeply resented occupations in the name of fighting "Islamofascism" will only help the jihadists.

In addition, major Muslim nations that are sources of jihadist recruits must change too. Along with fighting non-Muslim occupiers, al Qaeda seeks to topple governments in Muslim countries like Saudi Arabia, Egypt, and Pakistan. Al Qaeda draws many of its recruits from closed societies that are intolerant of dissent; it is no coincidence that Saudis and Egyptians play such a key role in al Qaeda. If there were more open societies in the Muslim world, there might be more political space for Islamists who reject terrorism when out of power and who, if they gained power, would abide by the norms of the international system. This would likely reduce the appeal of al Qaeda as an alternative to conventional political participation.

Reducing poverty in the Middle East and around the world is a laudable goal in itself, for humanitarian reasons. But it would be a mistake to treat prosperity as a universal solvent that can deprive jihadists like bin Laden of allies and sympathizers in populations that feel humiliated by foreign domination or frozen out of politics. Ultimately, both foreign occupation and domestic autocracy are political problems that must find political, not economic, solutions. The campaign against jihadism and the campaign against global poverty are both justified. But they are not the same war."

A commenter calling himself "romat" on the website version of this article makes a strong counter-argument that perceived political impotence is a better explanation. As s/he argues:

"To the kind of terrorism to which your are speaking, terrorist actions against civilians, or mass terror, these are manifestly acts of felt *political* impotence born of desperation. You can talk all you want about how those feelings come about, and I'll agree that poverty is not typically or ever one of them (unless you classify the poor storming food storage depots as terrorism).

The underlying belief - really, strategy - of these sorts of terrorists - Al Qu'eda being a good example - is that terrorist action will act as a spark to mass uprising against the declared enemy by the indirect vehicle of eliciting state repression, since the latter invariably follows in response to terrorist action. A good, simple example worth studying toward understanding this kind of political thinking was right here in the U.S. a few decades ago, the Weatherman faction of SDS, and they certainly weren't political reactionaries, or particularly humiliated.

In the circumstances of Iraq, this script of impotence has morphed in some cases from the actions of an isolated band of Islamic warriors into a strategy of guerilla war (much different than the IRA and Zionists before them?). There's nothing like turning a large group, such as the Sunni population, in particular the army, police, civil servants and many professionals, into enemies. Nonetheless, who is going to deny that the Sunnis haven't and aren't still feeling impotent in the face of U.S. Occupation policy, including the setup of the Iraqi puppet government?"

And in many especially more autocratic situations, this perception may be matched by substantial enough reality to make terrorism more likely than in more democratic countries where more open, democratic institutions create more real opportunities for democratic engagmement and less feeling of impotence.

The pride/humiliation theory explains, better, why anti-democratic groups that have little proclaimed interest in more open, democratic institutions except as they facilitate their pursuit of their narrower ideological ends engage in terrorism, political violence, and political bullying to achieve their ends, even when more open, democratic institutions are available, as with left and right wing terrorism in the more mature democracies like the United States and Europe.

In both more autocratic and more democratic countries, plenty of democratically-committed activists help to build and expand more democratizing institutions, while terrorist and radical counterparts manipulate and undermine those same institutions. I would add that mainstream groups too often legitamize radical and terrorist action in both autocratic and democratic nations by using their threats of violence and bullying to, they believe, strengthen their hand in leveraging preferred political action.

What is powerful about the pride/humiliation theory is that it accounts for anti-democratic and quasi-democratic groups, many if not most of which rationalize authoritarian and autocratic methods and governing philosophies, as well as ideologies with poor ideas and ideologies hostile to democratic engagement, especially thoughtful intellectual debate and discussion, using terrorism, political violence, and political bullying to avoid ideological, intellectual, and democratic engagment in an open and free marketplace of ideas, with best ideas prevailing.

Terrorists and autocratic ideologues -- including state-ruling ideologues like Mahmoud Ahmadinejad and Kim Jong-Il -- do use the more repressive reactions by democratic and autocratic governments to rally support for their causes, as the commenter suggests. But they do not do so out of any genuine respect for democratic ideas and institutions that they simply lack access to and power in engaging, as a "political impotence" or "deprivation" theory might suggest. They do so, generally, out of disrespect for both those institutions and the democratic ideas that nurture them, both in mature democratic societies and in more autocratic societies.

Groups like the Weathermen and Hamas do not simply act out of a sense of impotence in the face of autocratic measures by governments. Hamas, for instance, has not, in the least, given up its terrorist ideology with control of the Palestinian government, nor have they, at all, engaged the more fundamentally democratically peace process with the more democratically mature Israeli government. The Weatherman acted in America, the oldest and most democratically mature democracy in the world, in the 1960's and 70's, with some of the most open and democratic institutions in the world and in the history of democracy, even given an American government and society that was far less open and democratic than the America of the early 21st century. Radical left groups and leaders established political magazines and journals, worked and were active in American universities, found audiences on national and local television programs, and even found allies in and/or were elected to democratic office.

What Hamas and the Weatherman, as just two examples, had in common was that they had poor ideas and violent, anti-democratic ideologies. And the failure of those ideas and ideologies as either governing philosophies and in the larger marketplace of ideas (Hamas won electoral support from Palestinians in the most recent elections, but it hardly has secured support from the international community or marketplace of ideas and is unlikely, I believe, to hold onto national support in Palestine, especially given a taste of the failure and incompetence of their governance).

Lind and Bergen's pride/humiliation thesis better explains why groups and individuals with poor ideas or groups or individuals with even good ideas that they are uncertain and afraid will experience more sustained, popular support -- meaning their fears and insecurities about their ideas lead their efforts more than the strength of their ideas, which are the more sustainable path to the growth of democratic ideas and institutions and progress on issues that socieites face -- pursue more violent, aggressive, and forceful strategies is because they lack faith and confidence in their ideas and lead with force out of fear and insecurity in those ideas rather than confidence in their efficacy, whether those ideas are strong or weak.

Al Queda is hardly concerned with the efficacy of a more theocratic Islamic governing philosophy. They want no debate on the issue, at all, because they fear the fate of a more theocratic Islamic ideology and lack faith and confidence in the rigor of an engaged, intellectual marketplace of ideas. Islamist, leftist, fascist, Nazi, and other terrorist groups may feature intellectuals in their movements and engage intellectually, but it is generally engagement that lacks a genuine respect for either the democratic institutions or the process of intellectual engagement which assumes humility and a need to engage those who disagree with them because they might be wrong. Generally, these ideoligies do not even consider that they might be wrong. Pride, not genuine intellectual engagement about complex issues, features in their thinking about their efforts, and makes more genuine intellectual engagement difficult, though not impossible, to engage, as peace processes in Northern Ireland, Spain, and around the world illustrate.

Desperation and feelings of political impotence are often a cover for intellectual and political arrogance in the face of such engagement. The intellectual humility needed for mature democratic engagement necessitates democratic engagement and a respect for democratic institutions and dialogue to create the safety and genuine security - political, material, personal, and even emotional security - needed for honest debate and discussion to take place. Many groups persistently take that security for granted and often undermine it by alligning themselves with groups and engaging in, themselves, political violence and bullying. But that security is necessary for more genuine democratic and intellectually honest engagement to take place.

Terrorism in more autocratic societies and nation-states is more likely to be explained, in part, by political impotence and desperation. And genuinely democratic revolution and rebellion in the face of autocracy - meaning military or political action genuinely meant to remove repressive government and establish democratic institutions rather than topple either autocratic or democratic institutions for more autocratic or repressive ends - is certainly distinct from terrorism which does not share those ends or which destroys or undermines democratic institutions in the name of other ends.

Bergen and Lind do a brilliant job of arguing for the need to, as they say, "reduce feelings of collective humiliation" and use four examples, American occupation of Iraq, Israeli occupation of Palestine, Russian occupation of Chechnya, and Indian occupation of Kashmir to illustrate areas where respect for legitimate claims of self-determination, a fairly important and established democratic principle, by local Muslim populations, would much more powerfully account for the concerns of people living in those areas than military force or political imposition.

In each of these areas (as is also true of every democratic and autocratic society in the world) there are plenty of legitimate concerns about poverty, political impotence and lack of access, and other rationalizations for terrorism and political violence. But what each of these cases also have in common is political groups without explicit or necessarily implicit democratic commitments that use violence in lieu of democratic engagement with established or functioning democratic institutions as an explicit strategy of effecting their ends, democratic institutions and norms be damned.

The bottom line for most if not all terrorist groups, by definition - meaning distinct from groups with more explicit democratic commitments and which engage democratic institutions with respect for those institutions and democratic norms - is they generally favor their ends completely independent of political access and power, except when they are convinced that they can successfully threaten or impose their will on populations, in lieu of persuading them.

Pride, or lack of democratic humility, is a much better explanation for the behavior of such groups than political impotence or poverty, even as these explanations might also explain the behavior of such groups in more autocratic countries or support for these groups when poverty is used as a rationalization or rallying theme or ideological underpinning.

Bergen and Lind's argument is a powerful and valuable argument in the on-going debate and discussion about constructively and effectively addressing the problem of terrorism in the international community and within sovereign nations. And, very powerfully, it undermines excuses and rationalizations for terrorism and political violence by too sympathetic observers and advocates.

Pride is not an ignoble motivation for terrorists groups, alone. Political parties, activist groups, journalists, commentators, scholars, and citizens, all of us, engage politics too proudly, too self-righteously and with too little willingness to acknowledge that we might be wrong about either means or ends, which is the reason that democratic and intellectually honest discussion and debate are the most ideal forms of democratic engagement. They have serious consequences on the quality of our democratic debates, discussions, elections, policies, ideas and the credibility of democratic institutions, generally.

But an important distinction must be made between those who engage with respect for democratic institutions and norms, intellectual honesty and engagement, and a general respect for the marketplace of ideas and those who seek to circumvent and manipulate those institutions and lack faith, trust, confidence, and respect for those institutions, norms, discussion, and ideas, especially those who use violence to challenge and undermine those institutions rather than challenging them and reforming them respecting democratic norms and means. And even in more repressive societies and with more autocratic states, a distinction must be made between those who engage in political activity, even violent activity, with explicit democratic commitments and respect for or a commitment to establishing democratic institutions and norms and those who lack respect for democratic institutions and norms and/or see democratic institutions as irrelevant or as a means to an ideological end.

There is an assumption behind my analysis that is important to question: that good ideas take root, especially in a more open and democratic marketplace of ideas. A corollary to that assumption is that good ideas are the more ultimate judgment on policies, governing, issues, culture, and power than power alone and who captures it. It's a legitimate and important question. But they are both ideas that history bears out both in real institutions - ideas like democracy will out because they are better ideas and form stronger governments and societies and ideas like autocracy fail because they are failed and worse ideas and form weaker governments and societies - and in form and process - historians center their judgments (rather than homogenously settling on any one final judgment or idea) around better ideas of the form, substance, consequences, etc. of better institutions, cultural trends, resolution of important issues, choices and thinking of democratic actors, etc.

Historians, scholars, and other democratic thinkers center their judgments around ideas and institutions that they believe better support the values that support the long-term growth of the culture, as much as match their more narrow biases. And it is that long term democratic marketplace of ideas that animates the judgments and outlooks of future generations. Better ideas always win out, long-term, independent of the immediate political and historical moment, by definition, because it is that democratic marketplace of ideas that reflects the ideas and values that a culture deems valuable enough to pass on to future generations.

Political violence and bullying neither respects stronger democratic institutions, norms, ideas, and judgments, nor is is able to overwhelm those stronger democratic institutions, norms, ideas, and judgments because those norms, ideas, and judgments are the more final verdict on the efforts of groups who engage in political violence and bullying and because they support stronger cultures and governments capable of stronger, more thoughtful, and more effective ideas, institutions, and action than their anti-democratic or democratically ambivalent counterparts.

As Stephen Ambrose wrote in his counterfactual assessment of the Normandy Invasion, there was very little question that the democratic Allies would defeat Hitler's Nazi regime, the real question was how long it would take and how many people would die in the process. The democratic allies, both by virtue of being democratic and their stronger, more thoughtful, more resource-rich capacities, their military victory and more sustainable cultures and political institutions, and by the clear judgment of history, were stronger than the Nazi regime. But even had they lost critical military victories and/or been overwhelmed by the force of the Nazi regime, as John Keegan and others have postulated, it is highly unlikely that democratic citizens of Allied countries would have somehow permanently submitted to a Nazi victory or even Communist imposition had the Soviets won a hot war in the race to Berlin or in its aftermath.

There was and would be a clear democratic consensus that Naziism, Communism, or any other anti-democratic philosophy did not support the growth of their peoples and cultures, just as citizens of Nazi Germany and the Soviet Union eventually concluded, because as an objective fact of history they did not. And democracy and a democratic marketplace of ideas did and do support their cultures and peoples better. Power can only ignore realities of life and history for so long before those realities catch up with their power. It is both a democratic marketplace of historical reflection that renders and would, in the case of a Nazi or Soviet victory, render that judgment. And that is the clearest possible judgment that history has to render on undemocratic institutions or less then fully democratic institutions, governments, or cultures.

And, similarly, terrorists and groups that engage in political violence and bullying cannot will out over democratic societies and governments, especially the more consistently they apply democratic principles like self-determination, intelligent and constructive engagement, distinctions between different terrorist groups and possibilities for constructively combating and dealing with their threats, military force and law enforcement that is most discriminating, least threatening, and least destructive to civilian populations possible, the most humane and least aggressive means possible of dealing with terrorist threats, and honest and genuinely democratically committed engagement with democratic and non-democratic partners, citizens, and populations.

That is why analyses like Michael Lind's and Peter Bergen's are so critical to developing a more effective response to threats like terrorism. The better we understand who we are dealing with the legitimacy or illegitimacy of their claims, causes, and means, and the consequences of our actions on past, present, and future political and cultural realities, the more effectively we will defend ourselves and the democratic institutions that they are so hostile to.

The logic of power

The fundamental argument for a liberal society is that without a commitment to liberty, fundamentally, all governments and all those with power use every justification/rationalization to have, keep, and use power as they please. Any conceivable argument for good that can be done for others can be used to justify/rationalize power. Power can be rationalized without limits as long as people believe that power and force is responsible for the good choices they make in life. And that will be so as long as people attribute their good choices or better choices by others to power and the ability of others to force their choices.

As long as people believe that, there is no limit to how power can be rationalized.

Hope for humanity lies in our capacity to take credit for the good we do in the world and responsibility for the bad we do in it. And that world will both be created by a society more committed to that kind of responsibility and actualized as we create societies free enough that people more readily take such responsibility.

Love,
Ben

Wednesday, December 27, 2006

Finding peace

Now playing: February, Lovin' You, Iowa, What Do You Hear in These Sounds, After All, When I Was a Boy, The Babysitter, Christians and the Pagans- Dar Williams

I just had this really beautiful dream. And when I woke up, I was so at peace with conflicts I've had with some people. And so at peace with Brandi, in particular.

In the dream, I was teaching and coaching basketball, of all things (I love basketball, but I wouldn't say that I would necessarily be a brilliant basketball strategist).

I was meeting all of these new, strange people. And one girl, in particular, Elizabeth or Katherine or something like that, and I were talking together, a lot.

One day, I was supposed to be getting to a basketball game that I was late for (and my guys were wondering where the hell I was undoubtedly), but I was enamoured with this girl. We were talking and I was so charmed by her. At one point in the dream, I'm asking her questions alluding to why we shouldn't date. And in a vulnerable way, she's giving me answers alluding to all kinds of excuses for why something like that wouldn't work out. And all I wanted to do was hold her. I was falling in love.

And I woke up and all I could think was that when I saw Brandi next, whenever that might be, that I'd just want to give her a hug and tell her that it's alright. That it was sad that we couldn't make our relationship work. It was sadder that she didn't feel like she could make a friendship work, after the fact. But that it's really alright. That I've just missed her. And that we'll both be ok.

There is so much in the world that I can't control. No matter how much I might want to and sometimes need to.

Sometimes it is tragic, as with Brandi's and my break-up (if you've never heard Dar Williams' February, I think it captures the experience pretty well), and our subsequently losing our friendship. But we may still have limited control over some circumstances, especially when they're not in our hands only.

And do our best to love our lives despite the tragedies that life sometimes has to offer. We cannot always prevent them, no matter how much we may try.

Losing that relationship and all of the beauty it held for me was the most serious tragedy in my life, thusfar. My professors and I don't talk anymore. My mother and I don't talk enough, these days. My family and I don't talk enough, generally, these days.

But losing that relationship is the saddest thing that's happened to me in my lifetime. Because my love was so strong, so complete, and as pure a feeling as I've ever had in my life.

And it's ok.

If you ask me, I'll tell you this really beautiful story of two young people in love. It's a great story. And today I can tell it without bitterness or pain on my heart or self-pity. It's a really beautiful, sweet story if anyone ever wants to hear it, some day.

Two kids spent most of their time together, in college, for about a year. Best friends (at least Brandi was my best friend; she always said that her mom was her best friend forever, so I could never crack that category). The girl headed to Washington, D.C. for an internship and they held hands all the way to take the boy to the airport so he could return to Wichita. They talked on the phone all the time while the boy did his pre-student-teaching at Wichita North High School and the girl did an internship with the Atlantic Council in Washington, D.C.

When she returned, they were counselors at a Kansas Regents' Honors' Academy at their college. And they fell in love.

She returned to D.C. He went to grad school at KU in Lawrence. And they spent three amazing months together in Washington, D.C., exploring the big city and experiencing the bigger world around them, together, for the first time. They lived together, they worked together, they walked all over the city, together, and generally spent almost every waking moment together, many days. They saw Cornell West and Reverend Eugene Waters and a million artsy movies at artsy theaters and from artsy video stores that they didn't have in Wichita, Kansas. They talked about race relations and social security and about every political issue under the sun, because they were young idealists out changing the world.

The girl returned to Lawrence to study for her Master's in Public Administration, even though the boy encouraged her to check out more prestigious schools since she had the grades. But she wouldn't have anything of it. She missed him and she wanted to be close to him.

They lived together and studied at the University. He studied for his Master's in gifted education, his Master's in special education, and a Ph.D. in special education policy, which soon became study for something much more than a Ph.D. or special education policy. She studied for her Master's in Public Administration and worked with a great group called Study Circles at the United Way of Wyandotte County bringing parents and community members together to discuss important matters of education policy.

They fought. A lot. Far too much. They were in love. But their passion was perpetually spilling over.

I understand a lot of that fighting better in my old age. A lot of frustrations about different outlooks on the world. The bulk of Brandi's life was in her real world job; the bulk of my life was wrapped up in a very theoretical Ph.D. I was studying a lot; a lot of things for the first time. And Brandi and I would talk about them, all the time. And argue about them, all the time. And it wore on Brandi, I think.

But, you know, it's funny. A lot of people give up on those arguments, I think. It does wear on them, and their relationships and friendships.

But the truth is that, generally, it is our failure to engage those difficult conversations and issues, and the ways that we discourage them, that undermines so many of our relationships and larger efforts, rather than our engaging them too much, I'm pretty clear.

More specifically, it is our failure to listen.

That was my greatest failure in Brandi's and my relationship, I think. Which is ironic, because it is one of my biggest strengths, today.

I didn't listen to Brandi, nearly enough. I was too focussed on "being right." On insisting on my passionate, self-righteous outlooks on the world. And I listened far too little to Brandi during that time. To be fair, she listened to me far too little, as well. But it was too much bickering and not enough listening and appreciating one another's perspectives, I think.

And that is what undermines most of the important things that we want and need in life, I think. We don't listen and appreciate each other well enough. I'm getting better at it. And now and forever I have a long way to go. But it featured so big in the friendship and relationship in my life that was closer than any I had had then or since.

And after two years of living together in Kansas and bickering fairly regularly, the girl broke it off.

It's a really sad and sweet story. The early part, in particular, is very sweet. And there's many more details to that story that would really fill in the sweet. Eating lunch at the park, every day. Finding free snacks at happy hours around town. Visiting DuPont Circle and being around an openly gay community of people for the first time (I had visited the Castro in San Fransisco, but it wasn't quite the same thing as living and working in D.C. and visiting DuPont Circle regularly). Renting porn with a girl for the first time. Long, deep discussions with Brandi's amazing boss and USC professor, Theo Brown. Experiencing everything great that Washington D.C. has to offer.

And it has a sad ending.

And I am making peace, this year, with both that initial sad ending. But, much more importantly, the sad turn that this story recently took, where the boy and the girl, who were best friends in college, don't talk anymore because the girl, who married another boy, decided that she couldn't keep talking.

And the sad thing about the whole mess was that learning to talk and listen to one another better was what kept two friends from staying friends.

I've got to get to bed. Hopefully, I'll have similarly sweet dreams for the rest of the night.

Love,
Ben

Tuesday, December 26, 2006

A brilliant social security retirement solution

Senator Jeff Session (R - Alaska) has just become one of my favorite Senators.

Today, in the December 26, 2006 Washington Post, Jeff advocated a social security solution that is really brilliant, both substantively and politically.

A Bipartisan Fix for Retirees

Jeff's plan would establish personal savings accounts for every child at birth with $1000 invested by the Federal government. It's an idea that has been floated around in wealth equity/poverty circles for quite awhile, now, and Jeff combines it with a lifelong, cradle to grave, social security personal savings plan with small paycheck contributions from both employees and employers over the course of every citizen's lifetime, that can be invested in 1 of 6 investment accounts (building on an already established Thrift Savings Account program for Federal employees) resulting, Jeff thinks, in a retirement nest egg of at least a half a million dollars at retirement.

There are substantive and political problems with Jeff's plan, I think. The first and most important, I think, is a budget problem. Where does $1000 for every newborn child come from? There's plenty of wealth in America to make that happen. The problem, as always with wealth equity issues, is the political will. But unlike many liberal political activists, I have much confidence that the American people might support this kind of bill in spirit, but very little confidence that they will want to pay the tax bill along with the tax bill for a million other programs in an already bloated Federal budget.

The problem and resolution around almost every wealth equity issue is peoples' willingness to give. If they are willing to give through this or any other Federal program, I say so be it. But many, many people and businesses and lobbying organizations generally fight and resist and kick and scream and complain and yell bloody murder whenever new spending is proposed. And at a time when the Federal budget is out of control, it makes sense that people would be skeptical of new spending until it is clear that the current spending commitments are covered.

It's the very sad consequence of so many groups demanding that their cause get funded now, that a very worthy cause like fixing Social Security gets lost in the shuffle of Washington pressure politics.

The substantive problem, I think, is that while some kind of retirement nest egg will be created and mandated for every American, it still doesn't resolve the responsibility issues that are involved, with every American needing to take more seriously their long term financial needs. I'm definitely guilty, here. I've thought about retirement, but, overwhelmed with work responsibilities, I've done almost nothing about it, as of yet. That will be changing, soon, as I organize my financial affairs this Christmas vacation. But it's a serious responsibility that needs, long-term, to be taken seriously by every citizen, so that savings and money earned in accounts is not frittered away. A half a million dollars can go quickly if retirees are not serious about being responsible for their limited resources rather than too enthusiastic about their newfound wealth. And no federal program can mandate that kind of responsibility.

But that substantive problem illustrates the really remarkable strength of Jeff Sessions' proposal here. There is no way for any government to guarantee responsibility by citizens for their financial welfare. And the bare minimum protections of the current Social Security guarantees are so small that they leave far too many older citizens, in a nation with this much wealth, among the lower middle class, the poor, or worse, wards of the state, as state governments require the elderly citizens sell off assets and enter nursing homes before medications and services will be provided, among other fates.

Once legislators and citizens come to terms with that limitation of federal involvement to promote the kind of responsibility that we need long-term and with the really remarkable amount of wealth in the United States that could potentially stem the problem of elderly poverty, it only makes sense to adopt some kind of proposal, public or private, that provides this kind of modest but substantial nest egg for seniors. The private for-profit or non-profit market could help provide for this kind of proposal and there has been much talk in philanthropic circles about just that (at least the $1000 at birth proposal) for some time now. Philanthropies could pool resources and ask for investments and contributions that could guarantee this kind of idea without generating the kind of conflict and resistance that typically follows efforts to raise taxes to fund such efforts.

Or Congress could take the path of shrinking the Federal budget to levels within their means and to find money through cuts in other programs. Or they could roll the dice and ask for a tax increase. If any proposal might get a tax increase, it is a plan to resolve Social Security woes with personal savings accounts, that would likely be more popular with the very people being asked to fund them.

The tax increase, itself, still has consequences for GDP increasingly absorbed by government largesse and the subequent government spending and borrowing crowding out private spending and borrowing, which is much more likely, long-term, to grow the economy (the goose that lays the golden egg, and all that).

But potential to resolve some of the more serious woes of the Social Security system and its woes is pretty hard to pass up.

Ideally, I would prefer for such an idea to be coordinated and funded through the private and non-profit sector, where it would have the huge long-term advantage of a more flexible and responsive system that could make adjustments in the proposal as problems are identified and opportunities are recognized. A private system would also have much more opportunity for a market of non-profit giving and investment by beneficiaries, where all parties would have far more choices and could engage much more thoughtfully and responsibly in making wise choices for contributing and investing money made available. Money contributed to such a proposal beyond that needed for individual accounts could be pooled and invested by philanthropic funds or for-profit investment firms to create a self-generating fund that would not need to ask for future tax increases or government spending each year, for instance. The Grameen Bank in Bangladesh, FINCA in Latin America, and many other microenterprise lending models throughout the world operate under just such a self-sustaining, self-generating model of poverty alleviation and wealth equity generation. A more successful model of wealth equity could be initiated and sustained around the basic proposal like Jeff's nurtured in the private and non-profit communities and grown to tackle a whole host of wealth equity issues, very much like how philanthropic and non-profit groups, themselves, grow to tackle many issues well beyond their original charters.

And private and non-profit system modeled after Grameen and other self-generating, self-sustaining wealth equity proposals would have the other benefit that Grameen offers: offering a road out of poverty and to fuller participation in the global economy with support from non-profit and for-profit financial planners to help individuals become more responsible for their financial futures. Supporting retirees in becoming aware and taking serious long-term financial planning is a valuable service that could be better provided by private and non-profit sector financial planners, I think, who are not bound by the bureaucratic, inflexible, red-tape suffocation of Federal, state, or other government efforts.

I think that would be a better idea that funding such an effort through Congress. But the two are not mutually exclusive, necessarily, given the vast wealth in America. And I very much applaud Jeff Sessions' efforts to tackle this very difficult problem, politically and substantively, head-on with intelligent proposals that much better account for workings of the market than far too many proposals for government programs and spending.

Thanks to Jeff for putting together a proposal meant to circumvent the substantive and political problems with efforts to improve Social Security and to resolve its most serious issues.

May that kind of intelligent bipartisanship lead this next session of Congress and Washington politics.

Love,
Ben

Sunday, December 24, 2006

The way of the future in public education

A review of a brilliant effort by an excellent math teacher at a KIPP academy charter school in Washington D.C.

New Teacher Jolts KIPP

So many limitations that we face at Eisenhower to create these results. Limitations that we are overcoming, slowly, but limitations nonetheless.

The largest and most tragic limitations are the legal and political limitations.

So many of the kids I face, ideally, should not be in special education. Like Lisa Suben's students, these kids should be in regular education math, reading, social studies, and science classrooms with teachers who are committed to their success and unsatisfied until they achieve it.

My kids end up in special education, largely, because so many general education teachers refuse or don't know how to do what Lisa Suben is doing: remediating problems with basic skills from lower level curriculum, covering the curriculum with enthusiasm and an expectation of success, engaging students regularly and with higher level thinking skills, and expecting students to think at the highest levels.

And, sadly, the paperwork requirements of special education put limitations on time and energy by teachers like me who are committed to these higher standards and levels of achievement. This is not an excuse. It is just a reality of the world of special education.

We are making progress in my special education math class. But it is far slower than if we had teachers like Lisa Suben doing the kind of work that I do in my special education math class (and far better than me) in general education classes.

I am curious to see how that model sustains itself with teachers raising families and with teachers and students who do not make explicit choices to attend a KIPP school, as Lisa's students did, but I very much believe that having many more schools like KIPP available and more often the norm will change the dynamic of teacher and student commitment to their work substantially, over time.

Teachers will fight this. Even good ones, who are stubbornly committed to models that emphasize district, state, and Federal compliance, mandates, and bureaucracy. And which keep teacher unions in business. And expect far too much in terms of meaningless bureaucracy and expect far too little of schools and teachers, generally, in terms of results.

It is clear that it will take a long time to make Lisa's experience more the norm. But it is clear to me that it is possible when teachers are freed up to do exactly the kinds of things that Lisa has done to produce results rather than lose precious time and energy complying with regulations in general and special education which have very little to do with achievement and much to do with justifying labels, attitudes, and elaborate intellectual rationalizations for why teachers do not expect success from students.

A rising tide of achievement of folks like Lisa and her students could raise a lot of ships, if we would let it. But it will mean letting go of the excuses and the political and legal squeeze on teachers to comply rather than to achieve when student achievement lags and when kids and teachers are not doing what we want them to do.

We can change this. But it will meaning coming to terms with the failure of the current approach. Even Lisa's amazing performance did not meet the impossible mandated standards of the No Child Left Behind Act, which is a failed effort to improve student performance and which, even in Lisa's case, is clearly a significant barrier to student and school achievement.

Money for schools is great, but it can come from other more private sources, as it does in the KIPP case. The choice provisions of the law could be expanded, but ultimately local district politics must welcome choice and a more open education market in a way that no Federal law can ever mandate.

Support for school choice must be created from the ground up in school districts, rather than imposed from above, where it entrenches and produces resentment and resistance that will become hardened down the road without support generated at the ground level. Political history is plentiful with examples of good ideas, like school choice, being imposed from above and producing resistance and resentment, no matter how strong the idea may be. And certainly the results from mandated efforts like IDEA (the Individuals with Disabilities Act) and the No Child Left Behind Act do not show promising results in terms of welcome embrace and fulfillment of legal obligations by schools facing those acts, since those obligations, more often than not, conflict with much more basic commitments to teaching and learning.

Milton Friedman's commitment to education as the centerpiece of the Rose and Milton Friedman foundation is no accident. Education is the field in America that is most in need of market reforms and more freedom, generally, to cure its ills and it is a fundamental need by a liberal democracy to fulfill its values and commitments to freedom, equity, and democratic self-governance.

Lisa Suben's performance should rightly be a shining example to everyone in public and private education of what is possible with kids when teachers believe they can perform and when kids choose to be with teachers who believe in them and expect much of them.

And efforts like Lisa's and the KIPP school she teaches with are only possible with the freedom to excel without the legal and political double-binds that afflict public schools today. As those double-binds are removed, we should not be under the illusion that all teachers and schools will perform as strongly as Lisa. But our efforts will be stronger as schools and teachers and students have the excuses and limitations for their performance removed from their forward momentum.

The poorest performers in schools and in life will only find dignity when they are held to the standard of the best performers, and when they finally learn to hold themselves to that same standard. There is much discussion and debate that will be necessary about what they will look like, given the needs of parents and children to live lives together without achievement as their only or even primary priority. But the only real dignity available to children and adults is one where we support and expect the best from and for all children and adults.

Thanks to Lisa and KIPP for showing us the way.

Love,
Ben