Wednesday, June 15, 2005

Andrew Sullivan on Michael Jackson...

I've been talking with friends and folks about Michael Jackson's trial...and I'll post on it soon:):):)...

In the meantime:):):)...

Andrew Sullivan writes a BRILLIANT piece on the matter:):):)...

Andrew Sullivan on Michael Jackson

I agree with much that Andrew says...EXCEPT two important things...

First...that people weren't interested...MOST of the people I talked with, really, were very and sometimes MORE interested in this story than most really important news stories these days:)...and their opinions are REALLY VARIED, I think, as someone who's talked with a lot of different folks about Michael...

Second...that blacks do not/did not support Michael...I think while many socially conservative blacks may have pulled away from Michael...my experience was that MANY BLACKS -- and many whites and folks of other ethnicities, for that matter -- supported Michael...in fact, in many ways, I think Michael was MUCH MORE SUPPORTED by both blacks, his fans, and the music industry than could comparably said of O.J. Simpson, as Andrew argues...

All of my thoughts, here, though, are based on anecdotal experiences of talking with people and not on any broader or more statistically sophisticated surveying...so I may very well be wrong, as I OFTEN AM:):):):):):)...

I want to repeat for ANYONE who might know or read me:):):):):):)...who is concerned that I might not readily admit this as often or as quickly as I need to (INCLUDING AND ESPECIALLY MY MOST PERSISTENT CRITIC -- though fairest, too, I think, generally:):) -- ME:):):):):):):)...

Other than these concerns...

Andrew writes a VERY IMPRESSIVE analysis of humanity via Michael Jackson that I think EVERYONE would benefit from reading:):):):):):)...

Have a great day, everyone:):):):):):)...

Love,
Ben

Sunday, June 05, 2005

Saw Star Wars: Return of the Sith, last night:):):)...

We're watching Return of the Jedi, right now:):):)...had to check out of the better Star Wars movies, after seeing the best that the prequels had to offer:):):)...

George Lucas has definitely redeemed himself with this last Star Wars:):):)...

...more soulful:):):)...very intelligent:):):)...much better, overall, than the previous two prequels:):):)...

And still DOESN'T EVEN TOUCH the first three Star Wars, I don't think:):):)...

...though this prequel was the closest to its original brethren:):):):):)...

Lucas has a lot of REALLY GREAT THINGS to say about contemporary politics:):):)...

And much of the movie is both implicitly critical of the President's "with us or against us" counterterrorism policy:):):) -- "You're either with me or you're one of the enemy" says Annakin Skywalker to Ben Kenobi...and of those liberals (not the majority, by far:):):) who are more concerned with understanding the perspective of terrorists than capturing and defeating them:):):) -- "From my perspective, you are evil" newly annointed Darth Vader relates again to his former teacher:):):)...

The acting is not the hottest in ANY of the Star Wars, I think everyone would agree:):):) (though Harrison Ford, Alec Guiness, and Carrie Fisher are a far better group than the really still pretty decent Ewan McGregor, Natalie Portman, and Hayden Christensen...

Star Wars: Episode IV - A New Hope...

Star Wars: Episode III - Revenge of the Sith...

But STILL:):):):):):):)...

A VERY GOOD MOVIE:):):):):):):)...

HIGHLY RECOMMEND:):):):):)...

Check out Return of the Sith, when you get a chance:):):)...

Love,
Ben

Friday, June 03, 2005

A brilliant yet sadly naive effort by National Review's own Victor Davis Hanson:):):)...

...this week...

Our Strange War...

I have to say that Victor Davis Hanson is DEFINITELY earning his stripes, these days:):):)...his last two articles for NR have been FABULOUS:):):)...

This article on the war is REALLY REMARKABLE in its very accurate and fair description, I believe, of the neuroses of both Arab societies and all-too-self-loathing liberals in the West not yet clear that we are in a war with a desperate and ingeninuous enemy:):):)...

Victor's description of the denial in both liberal and Arab and Muslim camps is INREDIBLE, really:):):):):)...

And some of his best work that I've ever read:):):)...

Victor is definitely proving himself to be a writer who can tackle difficult policy questions as well as military questions:):):):):)...which is a BRILLIANT progression from his EQUALLY BRILLIANT tactically-focussed military histories:):):)...

VERY IMPRESSIVE:):):):):):):)...

Now...

Here's the question that Victor and I differ on, at this point...

Victor ends his REALLY QUITE POWERFUL essay as follows...

"Which choice do we make now?...

Where will it all end? Our choices are threefold.

We can wind down — essentially the position of the mainstream Left — and return to a pre-September 11 situation, treating Islamism as a criminal justice matter or deserving of an occasional cruise missile. This, in my view, would be a disaster and guarantee another mass attack.

Or we can continue to pacify Iraq. We then wait and see whether the ripples from the January elections — without further overt American military action into other countries — bring democracy to Lebanon, Egypt, the Gulf States, and eventually the entire Middle East. This is the apparent present policy of the administration: talking up democracy, not provoking any who might disagree. It may well work, though such patience requires constant articulation to the American people that we are really in a deadly war when it doesn’t seem to everyone that we are.

Or we can press on. We apprise Syria to cease all sanctuary for al Qaedists and Iran to give up its nuclear program — or face surgical and punitive American air strikes. Such escalation is embraced by few, although many acknowledge that we may soon have few choices other than just that. But for now we can sum up the American plans as hoping that democracy spreads faster than Islamism, and thus responsible government will appear to ensure terrorists and WMD disappear.

The above, of course, is what we plan, but gives no consideration to the intent of the enemy. As we speak, he desperately searches for new strategies to ward off defeat as jihad seems more likely to lead to ruin than the return of the caliphate.

For now Islamic fascist strategy is to make such horrific news in Iraq that America throws up its hands and sighs, “These crazy people simply aren’t worth it,” goes home, snoozes — and thus becomes ripe for another September 11."

...also...for anyone interested:)...Victor's credentials...

"Victor Davis Hanson is a military historian and a senior fellow at the Hoover Institution at Stanford University. His website is victorhanson.com"

So the choices Victor proposes, to sum up are:

1) Quit
2) Press on and try to appease Iraqis (and terrorists, presumably) peacefully...or...
3) Win the war and press on to Syria as a next step:)...

Pretty simple, don't you think?:):):)...

Either we appease:):):):):)...or we win:):):):):)...

That's I love this guy:):):):):)...

He just has a knack for taking the politically complicated:):):):):)...

And reducing it to its lowest common denominator:):):):):)...

And I mean that statement in ALL of its possible connotations:):):):):)...

Victor is CLEARLY in good faith:):):)...

AND...he is overlooking several important options, out of his zeal to defend his preference:):):)...

Most importantly:):):)...

A million variations on one combined with soft power suggestions mentioned at length in Victor's BRILLIANT essay:):):)...WITHOUT APPEASING A GODDAMN SOUL:):):):):):):)...

And here's where Mr. Hanson's lack of any seriously demonstrated international policy understanding beyond warfare become a pretty serious handicap for him:):):)...

The Bush Administration, currently, is engaged in a two-pronged international policy effort -- absent any of the promised changes detailed in the previous Washington Post article:):):)...

First...to win the war in Iraq:):):)...

And second...to prevent the escalation of North Korea's and Iran's nuclear threat via diplomacy and negotiations:):):)...

So...

Here's the problem with Victor's preferred solution of bombing Syria to kingdom come:):):)...

Attacking Syria becomes a VERY CREDIBLE threat to North Korea and Iran that they will be attacked by the United States:):):)...

Iran and North Korea who have already, remember, INCREASED their ambitions to acquire nuclear weapons post-Iraq War, are now give ADDITIONAL incentive to do the same 3, 4, 5, 10, 100 fold, as long as their threatened:):):)...

So:):):)...

The option by the Administration at this point is either...

1) Remaining oblivious to current or then geopolitical realities...MUCH more seriously undermining U.S. credibility in international relationships -- especially with democratic and its strongest democratic partners:):):)...inviting a charge of war crimes to be brought on by Amnesty International, the United Nations and whichever other liberal, conservative (remember...conservatives INTERNATIONALLY, generally, feel MUCH DIFFERENT about this war than conservatives in America:):):))independent, and unaffiliated groups choose to engage in such a crusade (which...by my lights...would be an EMINENT THREAT, to use the President's language:):):)...but with a guarantee of a much more certain reality, sadly, for the President and the world:):):)...and trying to fight a two-front -- and if Iran and North Korea get the bomb, a three or four or more front war involving nuclear warheads pointed at Americans as well as at Syrians, Iraqis, North Koreans, Iranians, and don't forget about al Queda and other terrorist groups:):):)...especially if the U.S. ever starts LOSING that war, in which case:):):)...these folks are VERY SERIOUSLY likely to gang up on the ol' U.S. of A.:):):)...and do some SERIOUS CIVILIAN DAMAGE:):):):):):):)...

And...in the meantime:):):)...

Still having the same but even more ESCALATED violence, nuclear threats, and anti-American hate supporting terrorists' and the ugly regimes' causes world-wide:):):)...

...or...

The slightly more SANE idea:):):):):)...

Which...at the point at which this blunder will have been made:):):):):)...

2) Apologizing our hearts out and hoping the God that the above scenario does not unfold ANYWAY:):):):):):):)...

Does anyone see why it is so foolish to study war without seriously studying policy:):):):):):):)...

And why you're probably better off studying with a seroius international policy thinker with a defense department background, like Joe Nye, then a brilliant and yet utterly naive fool like Victor Davis Hanson:):):):):)...

What Victor just can't or won't or whatever look at:):):):):)...

Is where things are GETTING WORSE IN THE WORLD, GEOPOLITICALLY, YOU GODDAMNED FOOL:):):):):):):)...

And the CORRELATION between our ACTIONS IN IRAQ and an INCREASED NUCLEAR THREAT FROM IRAN AND NORTH KOREA:):):):):):):)...

Yeah, yeah, yeah:):):):):)...

What are all the conservative excuses for this situation, again?:):):):):)...

Everyone in chorus:):):):):)...

Appeasement by liberals...
The anti-war movement...
Anti-Americanism...
John Kerry...
Bill Clinton...
Jacques Chirac (the CONSERVATIVE LEADER in France:):):), Gerhard Schroeder (the FREE MARKETS liberal/socialist leader in Germany), and that UGLY CABAL OF CORRUPTION AND GREED known as the United Nations:):):):):):):)...
International opinion against the war and in league with the terrorists to kill Americans:):):):):)...

And MUCH, MUCH MORE:):):):):):):)...

The gig is up, Victor:):):):):)...

There's a reason by Mr. Bush is consulting with your BETTER:):):)...the more liberal and far more thoughtful military historian, James McPherson:):):):):)...

You're lead-up analysis, here, is BEAUTIFUL, Victor:):):):):)...

But your conclusion is kind of weak, given your total obliviousness to current geopolitical realities:):):):):):):)...

"But...but," Victor will protest:):):)...

"What liberal appeasement will sucker the war effort and we'll all die when our complacency lets the terrorists strike unannounced":):):):):):):)...

HEY MORON:):):):):):):)...

How in the world will fighting a three, possibly, four, possibly five front war with NO SERIOUS ASSISTANCE OR PARTNERSHIP from NATO or democratic or non or less democratic countries ENHANCE OUR PROBABILITY OF STOPPING A TERRORIST ATTACK?:):):):):):):)...

Victor...there is a reason why you need to stick to history and not to giving international policy expertise:):):):):):):)...

Because you are one of most NAIVE military historians that I have ever encountered in my entire life:):):):):):):)...

But the rest of your article was REALLY TERRIFIC, Victor:):):):):):):)...

Thanks for the GREAT READ:):):):):):):)...

But maybe take up golf or something in your spare time, Victor:):):):):)...and leave the SERIOUS MILITARY AND INTERNATIONAL POLICY ADVISING to people who KNOW WHAT THEY'RE DOING:):):):):):):)...

Love,
Ben

Why so many conservatives are such utter morons:):):):):):):)...

Reading so many conservative comments on the Koran abuse and Guantanamo issues in the military, lately...

I'm coming the conclusion that some conservatives -- FAR TOO MANY, by my lights:):):) -- just can NEVER acknowledge when America screws up...EVER...

That they are just TOO CHICKENSHIT for such a big person responsibility:):):)...

And that the little kiddies are feeling kinda cwanky after getting spwashed in the big kiddie poow aw day:(...

And I want to say to aw da widda kiddies out der who have a hard time saying, "I'm sawwy":):):):):):):)...

Wake up the smell the fuckin' coffee...you FUCKIN' MORONS...

We screwed up with the Koran...we screwed up in Guantanamo...we screwed up in Abu Grahib...

And if the President wants to avoid a war crimes tribunal (which I OPPOSE EMPATICALLY, by the way)...

Then he better get his sad, pathetic, chickenshit, scrawny little ass up to the fuckin' podium...

And say,

"I'm sorry. I fucked up"...

And if you don't care if the country and the world ends up going through that kind of bullshit...

Then I suggest that you own up...

And that you encourage our President to own up as well...

And if you CAN'T DO THAT...

Then I would suggest that the President is in DEEP, DEEP SHIT, right now...

Guantanamo Bay allegations and proposals for prosecution by Amnesty International

...make sure the check out Appendix 4, Recommendations, Preventing Torture and Ill Treatment, Item 7, Prosecution:):):)...

And if you don't want the President to be in DEEP, DEEP SHIT, right now...

Then I would suggest that you face your fragile little egoes...

And do the right thing, here...

And say...

"I'm sawwy":):):):):):):)...

And if not...

Good luck at the Hague!:):):):):):):)...

Love,
Ben

Sunday, May 29, 2005

BINGO:):):):):):):)...

I stayed up all night and I got this awesome little piece of news, this morning:):):)...

Review May Shift Terror Policies

This is THE MOST REFRESHING SIGN I'VE SEEN TO DATE ABOUT THE PRESIDENT'S TERRORISM POLICIES:):):):):):):)...

Please check out the article:):):)...

Essentially...an Administration review is developing a much broader counterterrorism policy...concerned with adapting to a much changed and weakened Al Queda...and hopefully addressing broader Arab and Muslim support for Al Queda and terrorist activity:):):)...

The report features an important strength of the current global war on terrorism -- the significant weakening of Al Queda -- with a new, broader focus on larger political factors outside the more narrowly taylored current war:):):):):):)...

And offers the President a BRILLIANT and FACE-SAVING means of rethinking the war, signalling the world that he is looking to make important and constructive changes:):):):):):)...without having to issue a formal apology:):):):):):) (something I think the President is far from being able to do:):):)...especially since I genuinely believe that he has believed at ever step he was doing the right thing...even if he has been a bit stubborn about acknowledging publicly and otherwise that he was not:):):):):):)...

I want to be the first person to say...

That I am VERY PROUD and APPRECIATIVE for/of the President for this move:):):):):):)...and feel much more reassured that he is leading the country in a much more constructive direction for the future:):):):):):)...

Thank you, Mr. President, for leading:):):):):):):)...and doing so with a whole host of the very smart folks that you work with there in the Administration:):):):):):):)...

My faith in the hold of the center is restored:):):):):):):)...after at least of week of some pretty scary and reckless hardline political action on the left and the right:):):):):):)...

And congratulations to the Washington Post for scooping ALL of the conservative media, as far as I can see, on this MOST IMPORTANT POSITIVE SIGN IN THE ADMINISTRATION'S INTERNATIONAL POLICY:):):):):):):)...

Yes...as my conservative friends will note:):):):):):):)...the headline is kind of snippy, I must admit:):):):):):):)...

But you got to acknowledge:):):)...the BEST NEWS about the Administration's international policy in quite a long time and a MODERATE LIBERAL paper scoops the entire conservative press that I've seen thusfar?:):):):):):):)...

You still sure that mainstream media is against the President?:):):):):):):)...

OK:):):):):):):):):)...

Maybe a little:):):):):):):)...LOL:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)LOL:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

But I'm not:):):):):):):)...

That's for damned sure:):):):):):):)...

I'm the genuine, real deal, true blue, loyal to all my friends, including the President and the proud servicemen and women in the American military:):):):):):):):):):):)...

That offer of a beer with the President that I made, originally, over 2 years ago, by the way, still stands:):):):):):):)...

American or import, Mr. President?:):):):):):):)...

When you get a chance:):):):):):):)...you know where to find me:):):):):):):)...

And by the way...to all of the irresponsible liberal activist groups like Amnesty International threatening war crimes and international criminal charges against President Bush...

FUCK OFF...you irresponsible fucks...

Have you not looked at what GOOD is happening in Iraq, right now?...

Are you looking to TOTALLY UNDERMINE PEOPLE'S CONFIDENCE IN YOU, you fuckin' whining pussies?...

Knock it off...

And to the folks at the Wall Street Journal claiming victory on the Appeals Court judge fillibuster stand-off...that the "nuclear option" has proven an effective deterrent...

Look, guys and gals:):):):):):)...

I want you to have as many ways to save face as the next person, right now, because I'm just damned excited that the President has made such important and impressive and progressive moves in his global war on terrorism, right now:):):):):):):)...

But you're threat of the "nuclear option" is just about as effective a deterrent to future fillibusters as Democrats threat of fillibusters is to these nominees and as Amnesty's threat of war crimes is to the President's future international policy...

Which is NILL, you fuckin' nimrods:):):):):):):):):):):)...

Goddamn:):):):):):):)...Some people will delude themselves NO MATTER EVIDENCE STANDING RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE EGG ON THEIR SILLY LITTLE FACES:):):):):):):)...

Guess who wins, long term with all this nonsense political brinksmanship, right wing and left wing media and activists?...

Times up:):):):):):)...

NOONE...you fuckin' bullies:):):):):):):):)...

And guess how many of you the American and the international public will trust you (and buy your newspapers and vote for your parties as a consequence of your bullshit brinksmanship?:):):):):):):):):):):)...

Very few...you foolish little people:):):):):):):)...

Thank God cooler heads ruled, here:):):):):):):)...

Nice job, folks:):):):):):):)...

Love,
Ben

P.S. ALL OF US should check out that FABULOUSLY LOOKING front page Financial Times article on health care industry folks in the United States meeting secretly to discuss how to deal with access to health care in the country that I love the mostest:):):):):):)...the good ol' U.S. of America:):):):):):):):):):):)...

And a WHOLE HOST of REALLY GREAT articles on the Wall Street Journal, Economist, Jerusalem Post, Financial Times, Time Online, and even the incomparable Frontpage Magazine, this morning:):):):):):)...

...and one of the FINEST COLUMNS I've seen from Victor Davis Hanson of the National Review in QUITE A LONG TIME:):):):):):)...

Our Spoiled and Unhappy Global Elites

I think I agree with ALMOST EVERY WORD OF THIS COLUMN:):):):):):):):):):):):)...

Except for the stuff about Indra Nooyi, the CEO of Pepsi, which I think misses her point, really:):):):):):)...her middle finger analogy (check out Victor's BEAUTIFULLY WRITTEN EDITORIAL:):):):):):):)...she's just saying to be more careful when telling the world to FUCK OFF, as the Administration did from about the first day on this war:):):):):):):)...

...other than that:):):):):):):)...

Go Victor!!!!!!!:):):):):):):):):):):)...

"Thralldom":):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

I got to give it to you, Victor:):):):):):):):):):):)...

You do have a way with words:):):):):):):):):):):)...

Friday, May 27, 2005

Why I stand by the President and the American military...

I'm only going to blog for a moment, here:):):)...

We're in the middle of Ray on the first day of my first three day vacation in a LONG TIME:):):):):):)...

The President and the military are in something of a pickle, right now...

I've seen at least 5 independent confirmations of the Koran desecration story...Washington Post...The Independent Online...The New York Times...Andrew Sullivan...National Public Radio...The Online Newshour...Yahoo News...

...and the Administration has admitted at least 5 cases of abuse...

Andrew Sullivan asks a great question...

If the Administration didn't approve of this desecration at as a policy (which 2003 military documents that I've seen reported on seem to indicate they did not) then why does the Administration argue that what was happening was within "standard operating procedures"?...

What do I think?...

Because the Administration is trying to do the RIGHT thing...

To be loyal to their -- our -- military...

And I'm with him...

I don't want the Koran abused ideally...as the military documents that I've seen quoted from indicate was far from ideal military policy as well (the documents that I saw reported on indicated that the Koran should be treated like a "fragile piece of delicate art")...

US military memo banned Koran desecration at Guantanomo

But the President is doing the right thing to be loyal to these soldiers (althought at least interrogator appears to have been disciplined)...

As any good commanding officer should be...

I don't want official policy of the U.S. government to be that it is ok to desecrate the Koran...

But what is SO GREAT about America is that we have learned better than Afghanistan and most more traditional and traditional Islamic societies is that the reality often falls far from the ideal...

And we stick by one another anyway...

And the President is doing the right thing to stick by soldiers when they fall from the ideal...

And he needs our and my and everyone's support on this one...

We want the Muslim world and traditional societies to be MORE like America and Europe and democratic societies...we want the standards of democratic societies to get MORE authentic and democratic and free...NOT LESS democratic and free and authentic, as are the standards in places like Afghanistan...

And the BEST decision, here, is to STAND BY OUR SOLDIERS...they may not be perfect...but neither are any of us...and they need our support, right now...

Muslims in Afghanistan and all over the world need to learn to tolerate the descecration of the Koran...just as we expect Americans and others to tolerate the desecration of the Bible and the American flag...

And we need to send the signal that we are LEADING THE WORLD...not following its worst instincts...

...including revenge for the desecration of a holy book...

Afghan clerics threatened a religious jihad for this desecration...their deadline has passed by more than a week...many Muslim countries have rules that make the death penalty the punishment for the desecration of the Koran...

And we should hold ourselves and those countries to a HIGHER STANDARD...NOT A LOWER ONE...

And that standard should be that even when military interrogators engage in abuse of the Koran...

They should NOT be punished...they should be CRITICIZED...

I'm going to get back to the movie, here:):):):):)...and I'll blog on this more, later:):):):):):):)...

Have a great Memorial day weekend, everyone:):):):):)...

Love,
Ben

Saturday, May 21, 2005

It's just been occurring to me, lately, how LOW a standard we've been holding this President to...

Playing currently:):):):):):)...The Decemberists:):):):):):):)...Billy Liar:):):):):):):)...

I need to sleep because I'm going out tonight with a good friend of mine, Deway, from work...and I want to be up and have a good time dancing -- which takes BIG effort to get others to go do with me at other times:):):):):):):)...

I'll have to tell everyone about Deway, at some point (though I will only share what Deway and what I think Deway would feel comfortable with me sharing:):):):):)...but I LOVE this guy:):):) (and not in that way, Deway:):):)...though Deway did give me PLENTY of shit this morning that he thought I was gay...so we're going out tonight to go dancing so I can demonstrate my quite capable heterosexual abilities:):):):):):):)...Deway will ALMOST CERTAINLY attract more women than I will (he is, after all, a pretty amazingly built bad boy with plenty of tattoos and genuine thug attitude after all:):):):):):):)...and plenty of street cred:):):):):):):)...he's also a GREAT GUY:):):):):):):)...who has quickly become one of my closest friends at Amarr:):):):):):):)...

But I think I can hold my own, too:):):):):):):)...and I KNOW that I can DANCE better than Deway:):):):):):):):):):)...

So I've got to get some sleep for the big outing tonight:):):):):):)...

In the meantime...

It's been occurring to me just how LOW a standard we've been holding President Bush to on international policy:):):):):):)...

It occurred to me as I was responding on an international debate forum that I belong to, EZBoard.com's international debate forum:):):):):):):)...

As we're talking about the mistakes of this Administration that President Bush REFUSES to talk publicly about:):):):):):)...

One of the conservative participants started to compare the President's unilateralism to his FAR SUPERIOR, more often than not. predescor -- international and domestic policy matters:):):):):):) -- President Bill Clinton:):):):):):)...

...though George Bush has/has had A LOT of strengths in his Presidency that President Clinton was either not as strong on or which, likely often, were not high priorities for his Administration:):):):):):)...though moral superiority is QUITE DEFINITELY NOT ONE OF THEM:):):):):):):)...

One place of equivocation was one that one of the participants raised...the other place was engaged in by a June 25, 2004 Washington Times article that I was consulting, trying to remember Bill Cohen's (President Clinton's Defense Secretary) last name:):):):):):)...

Honestly...

When I first encountered both of these arguments...that:

1) The Clinton Administration had reserved the right to attack Iraq unilaterally if it was out of compliance with U.N. resolutions concerning access to suspected Iraqi weapons sites...and here is an IMPRESSIVE list of sites/links to information to back up that claim:):):):):):):)...

Washington -- Secretary of State Albright says the United States is prepared to use force unilaterally against Iraq if Iraqi leader Saddam Hussein does not allow full access to suspected weapons sites by U.N. inspectors. "It is our preference...to do everything multilaterally and act in
concert with others," the Secretary of State said at a State
Department press conference January 28 just before leaving on a trip that will take her to Europe and the Middle East. "But I am not going anywhere to seek support. I am going to explain our position. And while we prefer always to go multilaterally and have as much support as possible, we are prepared to go unilaterally."

www.globalsecurity.org/wmd/library/news/iraq/1998/98012804_tpo.html

INTRO: PRESIDENT CLINTON SAYS HE WOULD CONSULT WITH U-N ALLIES BEFORE TAKING ANY MILITARY ACTION AGAINST IRAQ, BUT HE MAINTAINS THE UNITED STATES DOES NOT NEED U-N APPROVAL. HE MADE HIS COMMENTS AT THE START OF A MEETING WITH U-N SECRETARY GENERAL
KOFI ANNAN.

www.globalsecurity.org/wmd/library/news/iraq/1998/980311-iraq2.htm"


INTRO:SECRETARY OF STATE MADELEINE ALBRIGHT IS PLANNING A TRIP THIS WEEK TO EUROPE AND CANADA TO CONSULT AMERICAN ALLIES ABOUT HOW TO DEAL WITH IRAQ IF THE CURRENT AGREEMENT WITH THE UNITED
NATIONS IS VIOLATED. AS VOA'S RON PEMSTEIN REPORTS FROM THE STATE DEPARTMENT, THE UNITED STATES PLANS TO ACT REGARDLESS OF THE WORDING OF THE SECURITY COUNCIL'S RESOLUTION.

TEXT: THE UNITED STATES WANTED THE UNITED NATIONS SECURITY COUNCIL TO WARN IRAQ OF SERIOUS CONSEQUENCES IF BAGHDAD FAILS TO CARRY OUT THE AGREEMENT WITH THE U-N SECRETARY GENERAL ABOUT
WEAPONS INSPECTIONS. HOWEVER, THE AMERICAN POSITION IS THAT A STRONGLY WORDED RESOLUTION IS GOOD BUT THE UNITED STATES DOES NOT HAVE TO RETURN TO THE SECURITY COUNCIL FOR PERMISSION TO USE MILITARY FORCE AGAINST IRAQ IF IT RENEGES ON THE AGREEMENT.

FRANCE, RUSSIA AND CHINA HAVE BEEN TRYING TO WRITE A RESOLUTION THAT DOES NOT MAKE A MILITARY STRIKE AUTOMATIC. STATE DEPARTMENT SPOKESMAN JAMES RUBIN SAYS A WEAKLY WRITTEN RESOLUTION SHOULD NOT
MISREAD IN BAGHDAD OR ANYWHERE ELSE.

www.globalsecurity.org/wmd/library/news/iraq/1998/980302-iraq-1.htm

Western diplomats said that work was proceeding on a draft resolution on Iraq to be put before the Security Council later this week. While the envoys were reluctant to disclose details, they said it was intended to be a forceful condemnation of Iraq. The diplomats said that Washington and London had not yet decided whether to try to find Iraq in "material breach" of the cease-fire that ended the gulf war, which would give full diplomatic cover for military action. Such resolutions have been passed seven times, and four of those times Iraq has backed down, the officials noted. But they are not sure that Russia or China would vote for a finding of a "material breach" if it is viewed as an open door for an attack on Iraq, which both countries oppose.

www.nytimes.com/library/world/012798iraq-us.html

...and...

2) The Washington Time's June 25, 2004 claim that the Clinton Administration had first linked al Queda and Iraq...

Clinton first linked al Queda to Saddam

...I thought...

These are 2 of the STRONGEST arguments to defend/support the President's policies that I've ever heard:):):):):):):):):)...

Because they deal with 2 of the MOST IMPORTANT criticisms of President Bush's rationales and strategies for going to Iraq:):):):):):):)...

Unilateralism, as a strategy:):):):):):):)...

...and a link between al Queda and Saddam Hussein as a rationale:):):):):):):)...

I first want to give props to the Washington Times and Skyrocket2, of the EZBoard International Board:):):):):):):)...for doing their homework on both of these matters:):):):):):):):):):)...

And I do have to say that these would be BRILLIANT arguments for the Administration to tout if they want to defend their policies in international policy, given what I think is a RESURGENT (and DESERVED) popularity of the Administration of former President Bill Clinton:):):):):):):)...

...who was a FAR BETTER PRESIDENT, by my and, I would bet, most peoples' lights:):):):):):):)...

OK:):):):):):):)...

So:):):):):):):):)...

If President Clinton was such a great President...and his Administration made arguments for the ability to invade Iraq for EXACTLY the reasons that the Bush Administration invaded Iraq...why do I say that we are holding President Bush to such a LOW standard?:):):):):):):):):)...

Well:):):):):):):)...

I want to say, up front, that I hold EVERY PRESIDENT -- no matter party, ideology, politics, ideas, brilliance or lack of it:):):):):):):) -- I hold THEM ALL:):):):):):):)...

To the HIGHEST intellectual, scholarly, experiential, expert, and idea-based standards of international and domestic policy engagement possible:):):):):):):)...

If there is ANYTHING I've learned in my far too short time here on this little planet:):):):):):):)...

It is that when you hold people to the HIGHEST standard:):):):):):):)...with plenty of room for them to live up to LOWER standards...but with accountability to HIGHER and the HIGHEST standards:):):):):):):)...

They are FAR LESS LIKELY to do what the Administration and interrogators in the CIA and the military and their defenders are doing RIGHT NOW:):):):):):):)...

Which is to equivocate...and lame out...and otherwise hold themselves to as LOW A STANDARD AS THEY CAN ARGUE FOR AND GET AWAY WITH:):):):):):):)...

Meaning...the best way to curb UNDERACHIEVEMENT:):):):):):):) (as is occuring by the Administration in this war, too much:):):):):):):):):)...

Is to hold them accountable to the HIGHEST ACHIEVEMENT/ACHIEVEMENTS/BEST IDEAS in their fields:):):):):):):)...

Best ideas which come from THE BEST international policy thinkers:):):):):):):)...

Like Joe Nye:):):)...and Robert Kagan:):):)...and Madeleine Albright:):):):):)...and Sandy Berger:):):):):)...and Cyrus Vance:):):):):):):)...and Warren Christopher:):):):):):):)...and Henry Kissinger:):):):):):):)...and Paul Wolfowitz:):):):):):):) (who, despite misteps in this war has also had some BRILLIANT ideas along the way, as well, I think:):):):):):):)...and Bill Clinton:):):):):):):)...and Jimmy Carter and his Carter Center:):):):):)...and Bill Cohen:):):):):):):)...and James Baker:):):):):):):)...and President George Herbert Walker Bush:):):):):):):)...and Condi Rice:):):):):):):)...and even Don Rumsfeld and Norman Schwartzkopf (though, I think they are better consulted for their tactical advice than their international policy expertise:):):):):):):):)...

And THE BEST thinkers:):):):):):):)...

Many of whom SUPPORTED/SUPPORT the war in Iraq...

Have, generally, also been VERY CRITICAL/SELF-CRITICAL of it's conduct and policy mistakes...

Paul Wolfowitz, for instance...observed in a speech I watched him give in front of an audience of students shortly after the war was declared...figured out that it was probably a good idea to persuade the world that a major war was a good idea BEFORE you engaged it, to avoid the political backlash that will surely occur should you not:):):):):):):) (smart thinking, Paul:):):):):):):)...

Colin Powell has been apologetic about making a case for the presence of weapons of mass destruction that he argued in front of the United Nations was being stored in Iraq when none were, in fact, found...though Colin has been, generally, in favor of using sticks as well as carrots to persuade dictators like Saddam Hussein to comply with the will of the United States government and international bodies like the United Nations:):):):):):):)...

Joe Nye -- a former American undersecretary for defense and probably the most recognized and certainly one of the most brilliant international policy thinkers in the world -- who originally SUPPORTED the war (and who, I'm sure, still supports, as most reasonable people do:):):):):), military and political efforts in Iraq:):):):):):):) -- has criticized that the Administration has got to pay more attention to SOFT POWER efforts:):):):):):):)...to PERSUADE other nations and Iraqis of the necessity of deposing Saddam Hussein:):):):):):):) (though, as Paul, opined...perhaps that would have been better done BEFORE a war was engaged:):):):):):):)...to avoid all the unnecessary death and injuries and harm to so many people...

Henry Kissinger has seconded Joe's case for the critical need for multilateralism and working collaboratively with European and other democratic and non and less democratic counterparts to engage such SERIOUS efforts as the war in Iraq:):):):):):):)...Robert Kagan, who was a MUCH BIGGER SUPPORTER FOR MUCH LONGER of this war than Joe has also supported many of Joe's ideas...

And the significance of Henry and Robert endorsing Joe's ideas...is that the BULK of the legacy of BOTH of these writers is, very much, in contradiction to Joe's thesis...and very much more in the direction of the current and consistent policies of the President, currently:):):):):):):)...

Sandy Berger -- who proved himself to be a pretty hefty international policy thinker in the Foreign Affairs article that he wrote and I read...long before his slightly kleptomatic fetish for terrorism documents came to light:):):):):):):) -- was also critical of the lack of multilateralism in the Administration:):):)...and the consequences it had for America's relationships abroad:):):)...

And HERE's what strikes me about these folks -- all of whom have PUBLICLY and OPENLY RETHOUGHT, been CRITICAL AND SELF-CRITICAL about the efforts in Iraq...

They OPENLY RETHOUGHT their ideas...they were CRITICAL AND SELF-CRITICAL in ways that reflected critical thought...

They DID NOT -- well, Condi, maybe -- did not defend LESSER IDEAS and LESSER EFFORTS when they were not working...

Because, generally, people who feel accountable to the BEST EFFORTS AND THE BEST IDEAS...

DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESSER IDEAS AND LESSOR EFFORTS...

Meaning...

This President is ONE HELL OF AN UNDERACHIEVER...

And I, for one, am tired of having to equivocate just how little curiosity, intelligence, interest, and accountability he feels to and for serious international policy, security, defense, and military efforts:):):):):):):):):):):)...

Granted...as Dean Mundy pointed out:):):):):):):)...LUCKILY:):):):):):):)...

The President has consulted with eminent and one of the best, frankly, American military historians, James McPherson, recently, to plan for post-occupation Iraq, using the precedent of the post-Civil-War South to avoid mistakes in occupation and democratic transition efforts:):):):):):):)...

But, I have yet to hear the President ONCE...just ONCE...just ONE FUCKING TIME...

Do what I would expect even the WORST graduate student in any subject -- nevertheless any study of policy -- to do in any class situation where they are presented with a problem that does not fit their interpretation of events...

To rethink it...

Openly...

In front of the whole class...

So that we can all learn from the exercise...

And, as a consequence...

In contrast to the FAR MORE BRILLIANT leadership of President Bill Clinton...

The international class on international policy that we are ALL ENGAGED IN THESE DAYS...

Is being DUMBED DOWN in a SERIOUS WAY by the ONE GUY WHO GETS TO MAKE ALL THE MAJOR DECISIONS...

AND WHO IS CURRENTLY ARGUING THAT WE SHOULD TRUST HIM TO BE ABLE TO ENFORCE ALL OF HIS MAJOR DECISIONS ON THE WORLD, in so many ways (though, I must admit that it is the President and not Congress who is arguing that dues should not be withheld from the United Nations if U.S. demands are not met)...

...that this guy can't ONCE...ONE TIME...say, "I think there were a lot of things, going into this war that we just didn't anticipate...and here's what I'm thinking ont this"...or...more to the point..."I want to apologize to all of the thinking people in the world, today, who think differently about this issue than I do and who I've basically told to fuck off...I'm not interested in discussing this issue with anyone except for me, myself, and I and the very small circle of people whom I will choose to consult or not consult to help me make critical international and domestic policy decisions, many of which I am VERY POORLY prepared to make on my own or even in concert with such a small pool of thinkers/advisors on the matter:):):):):):):)...

President Bush is so LAMELY DUMBING DOWN politics, right now, that it is all that conservatives who FOOLISHLY follow his leadership can do but to just DUMD DOWN WITH HIM...

And what REALLY PISSES ME OFF ON THIS...is that the President is both reinforcing his own poorly-understood or thought out or challenged or developed ideas on important matters to the United States and the world...

But he's leading a lot of really FOOLISH and NOT VERY WELL EDUCATED people down a very bad road, as well...

Now...

Everyone is responsible for their own behavior:):):):):):):)...

If you want to follow this fool down this very foolish road of self-righteously defending bad and/or mediocre and/or poorly-thought-out and/or uncritically examined and/or not discussed publicly thoughts and ideas...instead of openly acknowledging weaknesses and strengths and considering alternatives and creatively developing options and ideas and brainstorming through different ideas...

Then by all means -- you foolish, foolish dumbasses -- you go right the fuck ahead...

And just so you know...when people FINALLY DO THINK these things through better and more thoroughly -- as they assuredly are doing now and will be doing for a good long time:):):):):):):)...

You'll be wondering why you SO WASTED SO MUCH OF EVERYONE'S TIME AND ENERGY DEFENDING BAD IDEAS rather than DEVELOPING BETTER ONES:):):):):):):)...

And in the meantime:):):):):):)...

This President just occupies such a LOWER STANDARD of leadership than we have experienced in the past and that we deserve for the future (Bill Clinton was a great President...but there are greater Presidents yet, still:):):):):):):)...and now is our chance to prepare them for a democratic discussion with MUCH HIGHER standards:):):):):):)...

That sometimes I just have to take a step back and remember...

Just because the world is full of dumbasses who want to defend their dumbassishness...

Does not mean that this is where the BEST IDEAS or BEST PLANS are found...

And the cynical low expectations that both the President has had for himself and that others have had of him to preserve their own low expectations for themselves (it's like a conspiracy of dumb students in a classroom with no teachers:):):):):):):)...

REALLY piss me off...and disappoint me...

And leave me perpetually wondering?...

When will this President bottom out?...

When will he and his supporters wake up from the self-induced slumber and self-defense that they've been engaged in to protect their whiny, fragile little egoes?...

When will they figure out that you can't get out of an honest intellectual argument by just ignoring intelligent arguments that you don't like?...

When will they figure out that doing so is ARROGANT...and FOOLISH...and just makes you DUMBER, rather than SMARTER?...

I don't know...

But it REALLY PISSES ME OFF:):):):):):):)...

And it is humility that the President and an awful lot of his supporters need to learn AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE...

For all of our sakes...

One tip to the President and the President's defenders on both counts of what I think, SADLY, are the strongest arguments to defend the President's efforts in Iraq...

The secret to a GREAT INTERNATIONAL POLICY is not EQUIVOCATING with the mistakes of other Administrations...

It is to RETHINK mistakes to keep building a better and still better international policy...

Rather than doing what I suspect the President is doing right now...

Quietly and to himself, repeatedly muttering...

"Bill Clinton thought the same thing...doesn't everyone know that...Bill Clinton thought the same thing...why does everyone just hate me?...Bill Clinton though the same thing"...

Mr. President...

Please get over the bullshit and begin to LEAD the country and not just indulge it's and your's whiny, self-centered, less thoughtful, less considered, less open and creative minds and hearts...

And LEAD, goddamnit...

Lead with a BETTER EXAMPLE for the legions of whiny, self-centered, self-indulgent conservatives and others who all want to reinforce your pathetic self-image -- FALSELY -- by telling you that you're doing better than you really are...

Goddamnit, Mr. President...

Be a goddamn man, for God's sakes...

Take responsibility for your mistakes...rethink your choices...openly...and out loud...and often...and with plenty of curiosity and thought...

And stop being such a whiny, cowardly little bitch...

Goddamnit, George...

Have some courage, man...

This has nothing to do with elections, George...

This has to do with the fact that YOU ARE THE ONLY GUY WHO HAS THE JOB, right now...

And goddamnit, George...

WE ARE ALL COUNTING ON YOU...

Fuck...

It's like trying to get someone who's feeling depressed to get out of bed when there's a fire in the house...

No offense...

But get off your fuckin' ass and LEAD, Mr. President...

And stop whining so goddamn much...to yourself...and, consequently, for the rest of us...

By the way, George:):):):):):):)...

I love ya, Mr. President:):):):):):):)...I love ya now...I'll love ya if you keep disappointing me on this one...even if you keep disappointing me on this one for the rest of your life, Mr. President:):):):):):):)...muttering to yourself under your breath:):):):):):):)..."Bill Clinton thought it too":):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

Mr. President...I'm behind you...the American people are behind you...even as they criticize you...sometimes FAR TOO HARSHLY (though I have genuinely TRIED to be very fair about my criticisms, Mr. President:):):):):):):)...

So please...

I'm asking you nicely, here:):):):):):):)...

LEAD, Mr. President:):):):):):):)...

Lead all of us...especially conservatives right now:):):):):):):)...

AWAY FROM THE ABYSS:):):):):):):)...

Your conservative colleages in international policy circles have already lead in that direction, Mr. President:):):):):):):)...

And now it is your turn to take their lead:):):):):)...to heed their better wisdom in these matters:):):):):):):)...

And to move away from the cliff, Mr. President:):):):):):):)...

Stop going down such a cynical, stupid, and sadly self-fulfilliing prophecy of self-pity reinforced by every person in the country who has ever thought themselve stupid and dumb or not smart enough who want to believe that THEY TOO can make decisions that -- honestly -- they are NOWHERE NEAR THE HIGHEST STANDARDS of intelligence and understanding and wisdom and leadership and social or rhetorical or critical thinking skills to do very well...

The people who know this best are the same folks who shy away from political leadership, often, because they are more interested in ideas than in power:):):):):):):)...LUCKILY:):):):):):):)...

And Mr. President:):):):):):):)...

YOU NEED TO FOLLOW THEIR LEAD:):):):):):):)...

I'm going to make a peanut butter sandwich and shake my fists in frustration at the world, right now:):):):):):):)...

I hope everyone has a great day:):):):):):):)...

Love,
Ben

Thursday, May 19, 2005

I'm EXHAUSTED...so this is going to be short:):):)...

I haven't slept very well this week, at all...and all of the tough new stances by our work have really heaped up the stress and made me MORE EXHAUSTED:):):):):)...and simultaneously removed some of the releases -- namely political discussion:):):) (though we're finding ways around this one:):):):):)...

So I'm only going to post really quickly, here:):):)...and then off to bed:):):)...

I think Rose -- Anonymous Rowhouse --has helped me uncover the Brandi mystery that I've been so pining over:):):)...

It's also a possibility that I've thought most likely...and -- knowing Brandi -- that I've thought about before:):):)...

That Brandi is just being unfair...

And that -- kind of like the President, really:):):)...and like a lot of folks, as Rose points out:):):) -- Brandi just doesn't like being told things she doesn't like to hear...and she tends to tune out when she disagrees with you on something important to her:):):):):):):)...

Welp...Brandi's choice...

In the meantime...as Shakespeare wrote:):):)...I've been true to myself:):):):):)...

And if I have/had to choose between being true to myself and walking on egg-shells around a very close friend:):):):):)...

I'll take being true to myself ANY DAY:):):):):):):)...

It sucks when you have to make those choices:):):):):):):)...

But I always feel better when I do:):):):):):):)...

I just have to accept on this one, I think, that Brandi -- like the President:):):) -- will just have to learn the lessons on this one on her own schedule:):):):):):):)...

Which just means fucking up a lot, first:):):):):)...and learning the lessons more after:):):):):)...

I've got to sleep, everyone:):):):):)...

Have a great day:):):):):)...

Love,
Ben

Tuesday, May 17, 2005

Sometimes...I wish I could just be like everyone else...

Sometimes...

I wish I was just like everyone else...

Meaning...not different in a way that so consistently gets me in trouble...

That always gets me noticed...

And not always for the better...

My boss just came down with a "no politics/no religion" rule...

And every time this happens...I think...

What are people so afraid of?...

Why do people always insist on shutting me and everyone else up?...

What real good does it do for them?...or anyone?...

Do they realize how much it hurts for me to have to stop talking about stuff that really matters in life?...do they realize how much it hurts all of us?...how much it leads to some really awful politics?...how much it dumbs all of us down?...how much it makes us all so much more subject to propaganda and deception and manipulation and control?...How much it robs all of us of so many opportunities to resolve difficult issues in our lives as grown-ups, together, face-to-face or blog-to-blog...whatever...rather than behind each others' backs in activist circles and in the legislature and at the courthouse?...

How my whole life is centered around it?...

The sacrifices I've made for that kind of life?...

All so noone has to hear ideas that they don't like?...

How central talking and working on these things is to my life?...how central talking and working on issues that help others is central to my life?...

How important it is to all of our potential?...

What's wrong with our too tiny little hearts that we would have to shut down those of us who might offer us a way out of the dark cave of ignorance and fear and cowardice?...

I don't want to drag people from the cave, as Plato described...

Just to show people some light...

So they can see the shadows...

And see what illusions they've satisfied themselves on up to this point in their lives...

Isn't that what intellect and openness and freedom and education are supposed to offer us?...

All of us?...

I think I've finally been stripped of almost literally everything that matters to me in my life...

Perhaps the cynics at work and among my friends and among my family and at school and in web forums and in all the various places I meet are right...

Maybe we can strong-arm the conscience into submission...

And dare those of conscience to defy a more powerful and punishing will...

Maybe...my life has been a waste...and everything I live it around has been a waste too...

And maybe it just doesn't really matter to anyone enough to really bother...

Except me, I suppose...

And on days like today...

I wonder why I care so much about it...why I would give so much for it...even if I'm never rewarded for it...

What makes me such a sucker of conscience, I sometimes wonder?...

Mine is not the worst fate that has ever been suffered, I always tell myself in moments like this...

Jesus was crucified...Socrates committed suicide to avoid being executed...Ghandi was killed...King was assassinated...

And by those lights...my fate, like everyone's fate, isn't so bad...

But the truth is that it is so bad...

The conscience and thought and expression need oxygen and openness to breathe...

And we all suffocate when it doesn't have that oxygen...

All of us...

When our more cowardly instincts overwhelm our more decent...and courageous...

When the darkness swallows up the enlightenment...

When force snuffs out freedom...

It takes with it the oxygen of life...

There is the classic debate in liberal circles about which is more important...conscience?...or material welfare?...

And now I understand the tradeoff being asked about in that debate so much more...

And what a terrible choice it forces upon people...

And how it impoverishes all of us as a consequence...

And all because our fears overwhelm our courage...

"I could wile away the hours...
Conferring with the flowers...
consulting with the rain...

And my head, I'd be scratching...
While my thoughts were busy hatching...
If I only had a brain...

I'd unravel every riddle...
For any indi-viddle...
In trouble or in pain...

With the thoughts I'd be thinkin'
I could be another Lincoln...
If I only had a brain...

Oh...I could tell you why...
The ocean's near the shore...
I could think of things I've never thunk before...
And then I'd sit and think some more...

I would not be just a nothin'
My head all full of stuffin'
My heart all full of pain...

I would dance and be merry...
Life would be a ding-a-derry...
If I only had a brain...

Oh...I could tell you why...
The ocean's near the shore...
I could think of things I've never thunk before...
And then I'd sit and think some more...

I would not be just a nothin'
My head all full of stuffin'
My heart all full of pain...

Perhaps I'd deserve you...
And be even worthy erve you...
If I only had a brain...

This world is in so much pain...and I just keep getting hurt along with it...

There's got to be a better way...

What would I do if I were going to die tomorrow and I could have just one wish?...

Be in love, comes to mind:):):):):):):)...

And live this life...this one I'm living...

I love this life:):):)...and all the pain that comes with it:):):):):):):):):)...

Have a thoughtful day, everyone:):):):):):)...

Love,
Ben

Monday, May 16, 2005

The Economist Challenge:):):):):):):)...What to do with Iran and North Korea?:):):):):):):):):)...

All of those smileys are dedicated to J. Marquis, the defender of all that is Good and Apocalyptic in the Republican Party and beyond this life:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

Speaking of which:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

If you haven't visited Frontpage Magazine:):):):):):):):):):):):):)...News Central for the COMING APOCALYPSE:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):) (why are you smiling, you heretic?:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...don't you know that the end is near?:):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

Sadly:):):):):):):):):)...and HILARIOUSLY:):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

David Horowitz becomes a sad, self-parody of HIMSELF:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

With his new book...that I don't think is SUPPOSED to be a joke:):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...but sure seems like one, nonetheless:):):):):):):):):):)...

The omininously titled:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

THE END OF TIMES...

Now David has TRULY joined the leagues and intellectual circles of Jack Van Impe, Jim Bakker, Jerry Falwell, Jimmy Swaggart, :):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

And the fools who fall for this bullshit DESERVE David Horowitz as their half-mad, half-intellectual, half-old-time-preacher, half-megalomaniac heir:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

I'm listening to:

The Beatles...Lonely People (and:):):):):):)...as my good friend, Brian White, would subtitle this song:):):):):):):)...Fucking liberals...fucking liberals:):):):):):):):):):):) (Brian...if you read this:):):):):):)...I just want you to know that I SING THOSE IMPROMPTU LYRICS TO THAT SONG EVERY TIME I HEAR IT SINCE OUR DAYS IN COLLEGE:):):):):):):)...funny stuff:):):):):):)...you may just have to be there for it:):):):):)...

Harry Connick, Jr.:):):):):):)...and his BEAUTIFUL, GORGEOUS cover of "If I only had a Brain":):):):):):):)...I think I'm going to have that song played at my funeral and the lyrics inscribed on my tombstone:):):):):):):)...along with the last 15 minutes of Monty Python's the Life of Brian, of course:):):):):):):)...

The Decemberists:):):):):)...My Mother was a Chineze Trapeze Artist:):):):):):):):):):)...my FAVORITE Decemberist song, I think:):):):):):):):):)...and a DEFINITE MUST for anyone interested in either VERY INTELLIGENT or POLITICAL or FAR, FAR LEFT-WING POLITICAL music:):):):):):):):):) (this song is about some SERIOUS LEFTISTS:):):):):):):)...socialists...communists...something WAY OUT THERE:):):):):):):):):):):)...and it is SO FUN and SWEET and EXCITING to have such intelligent lyrics in contemporary music:):):):):):):):):):)...I patiently seek and await similar REALLY CRAZY AND INTELLIGENT conservative lyrics:):):)...and David Allan Coe, though amusing, DOESN'T COUNT IN THIS CATEGORY:):):):):):):):)...but Rush DEFINITELY WOULD:):):):):):):):):):):):):)...although the last Rush album I saw looked much less libertarian than hippy and liberal, really:):):):):):):):):)...their war protest album, I think:):):):):):):):):)...

...but...for now...Hank Williams Sr. and Little Jimmy's 1952 version of the Old Country Church will have to do:):):):):):):):)...damn, did that guy have a twang, huh?:):):):):):):)...I LOVE IT:):):):):):):)...

OK:):):):):):):)...enough of the music celebration:):):):):):):)...

Onto the show:):):):):):):)...

I dedicate this blog to the wonderful little conservative forum at Ala's ... Blonde Sagacity, which you should check out when you get a chance:):):):):):):)...

The challenge, originally, is from the editors of href="http://www.economist.com">The Economist
magazine:):):):):):):)...

The Return of the Axis of Evil: Iran and North Korea

The challenge is issued as such:

If you want a multipolar world, do something

Should either or both of these events come to pass, note please that it is the world and not just America that will have to rise to the challenge. A lot of Mr Bush's critics will not see it that way. They will take satisfaction in his failure to achieve an aim he put at the forefront of his foreign policy in 2002—and they will argue that the
example America made of Saddam Hussein turns out to have fed rather than curbed the nuclear appetite of Iran and North Korea. But that argument is magnificently beside the point. The point now is that both Iran and North Korea are unpredictable regimes whose possession of nuclear weapons would be dangerous in its own right and might also persuade other countries in their neighbourhoods to go nuclear as well.

Whatever can reasonably be done to stop this proliferation nightmare should be done. And this, for all the talk of a unipolar world with one superpower, is not a job that America should have to do, or probably is able to do, alone.

You should DEFINITELY check out the rest of this article which has many important observations about the situation that it wouldn't do much good to repeat here...I'd just check out what they have to say:):):):):) (link above:):):)...

And their conclusions -- in favor of economic sanctions and against the use of force or military threats to coerce less militaristic aspirations of these two countries...and soon -- are GREAT in ONE VERY IMPORTANT RESPECT...they are critical, rightly, of the President's failure to accomplish much and the backsliding of the North Koreans and Iranians in reaction to his most recent moves to threaten military options if the countries do not do as the White House bids...

Let me say, up front, that EVERYONE -- the Administration...the Economist...the New York Times...the Wall Street Journal...the Guardian...the Globe and Mail...the Mail and Guardian...the Times of London...the Financial Times...Pravda...Democrats...Republicans...Tories...Labour...Liberal Democrats...Socialists in France and Spain...and Gualists and Conservatives in both countries...Christian Democrats...Social

Democrats...

EVERYONE...make no mistake about it...EVERYONE:):):):):):)...except for maybe the more militaristic, self-centered, suicidal, and foolish in each of these countries...like the folks over at Frontpage Magazine here in the good ol' U.S. of A.:):):):):):):):):):):)...and, quite likely, in the leadership among Iranians and North Koreans...

EVERYONE ELSE:):):):):):)...EVERYONE ELSE:)...wants to find as peaceful means as possible to prevent aggressive rogue regimes from threatening their neighbors and the world with serious nuclear weapons:):):):):):):)...

Meaning...especially in America:):):):):):):)...I want us to take a deep breath:):):)...exhale:):):):):)...

And remember that WE ARE ALL ON THE SAME TEAM, HERE:):):):):):):)...

And we ALL have an interest in a more peaceful, less threatening world:):):):):):):)...especially from the likes of leftist dictators like Kim Jong Il and Iranian theocrats who control parliament next door to Israel, Iraq, and other places that we need be concerned about:):):):):)...

Which is EXACTLY the point of the Economist editorial, if a bit shrill in its alarm at the situation:):):):):):):)...

As I pointed out in an earlier post:):):):):)...

The Economist, itself, acknowledges that North Korea -- the more erratic of the two regimes, I believe:):):):):)...my conservative friends can nod their heads and say, "But, of course:):):):):)...it IS the Leftist regime, isn't it?:):):):):):):)...why I bet that Bill Clinton and Jane Fonda consumated their secret, traitorous affair right there on the Big Bear Rug of the North's Communist Palace there in the center of Pyongpang:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

Maybe:):):):):):):)...Jane Fonda IS looking sexy, these days:):):):):):):):):):):)...I have to say:):):):):):):)...

The Economist acknowledges that North Korea can flatten Seoul with NO MORE weapons upgrades, whatsoever, at this point...

So...the real problem is CHILLING EVERYONE OUT, right now...including the Economist:):):):):):)...if they can do SERIOUS DAMAGE to South Korea's capital AT THIS MOMENT, it doesn't make much sense getting all worked up about MORE DESTRUCTIVENESS, necessarily...maybe just beginning to deal with the current destructive potential of that regime is enough for us to bite off, right now:):):):):):):):)...

And Iran is a VERY DIFFERENT CASE, I believe, that should be treated, differently, I believe:):):):):)...the MOST IMPORTANT DIFFERENCE, being, of course, not only that Europeans were briefly persuasive in getting Iran to hold back on its nuclear plans for about 6 months (an important success to build on:):):):):):):)...

But MUCH MORE IMPORTANTLY:):):):):)...Iran is a DEMOCRACY...and one that recent dealt with a MILLION PLUS protest in its capital against the current leadership:):):):):):):)...a theocratic leadership that has proved itself to be TERRIBLY manipulative in its pursuit of power in Iran, including a slightly ramped up version of Pope Benedict's somewhat similar moves at power in the Catholic Church, purging moderates who veer from the leadership's view of Iran...in the Pope's case, his power is -- LUCKILY -- limited to the archaic institutions of the Catholic Church:):):):):):):)....in Iran's case, the conservative leadership purged moderate candidates who might have unseated them in periodic elections:(...

But Iran is a democracy, nonetheless...allowing for more openness to change and shock and adaption to circumstances and ability of the electorate to have influence --as it recently did in a MUCH, MUCH LESS democratic Lebanon -- that a more straightforward autocratic dictatorship like North Korea does not share with its autocratic democratic world neighbor:):):):):):):)...Islamic theocrats look more like their Christian theocratic brethren here in the States, in many ways, than they do the ugly and parasitic dictatorship of North Korea...

My friend, Kenny, has a REALLY WONDERFUL suggestion, I think...

In the case of North Korea and Iran, the President could start by de-linkinng the two countries, which are very different...

He could then pursue non-threatening bi-lateral and multi-lateral talks with them that don't take already paranoid actors and have them ambitiously pursue nuclear materials because they are afraid that you might invade and they clearly want to keep you out, making them MORE DANGEROUS, as the Economist points out, rather than LESS DANGEROUS,
which, if you take a moment away from just defending the President and his actions and just look at what they are doing in response to the President's actions...which is REALLY THE GOAL, isn't it?...I'd also -- in this case and with Iran, specifically -- build on MANY, MANY STRENGTHS in this Administration...including:

1) A SERIOUS respect for Islamic religion, cultures, and institutions...is EVERYONE losing their minds on this story TOTALLY forgetting how much effort the Administration and the military went to avoid hitting Islamic mosques in Iraq and rebuilding ones that got caught in crossfire or where fighting couldn't be avoided?...I would add a serious respect for the constructive priorities of leaders in
Iran and North Korea, including a vague desire to care for the needs of their peoples...given...it's a STRETCH of a compliment:):):):):):)...but I think this is a better start than just criticism alone:):):):):)...which gets us to the SECOND important strength of this Administration, I think:):):):):):):)...

2) President Bush's forthright criticism of autocracies and rogue regimes...this is where I and many of the President's critics in the media SERIOUSLY DISAGREE...I DO agreee with many folks -- and the bulk of the international policy scholarly community...conservatives -- like Henry Kissinger and Robert Kagan -- AND liberals -- like Joe Nye and
Thomas Friedman...that the President should stop trying to bully the world and should work WITH multilateral institutions, like the United Nations and NATO, and with democratic and non-democratic partners to engage such issues...with open and honest disagreement, to be sure...but not trying to win the upper hand, politically, and not expect consequences that none of us want, on the back end...

And I think that trying to SCARE North Korea and Iran into giving up their pursuit of weapons is CLEARLY NOT WORKING BY ANY OBJECTIVE MEASURE of the situation, which is EXACTLY why the Economist is so
RIGHTLY critical:):):)...

I think we should focus on bilateral and multilateral talks...and in doing what the President and John Bolton have SAID, recently, that they want to do with the U.N...which I think would be encouraging if they are being sincere...which is to ENGAGE it...to recognize and acknowledge it's value...as the President does so well with, say, American businesses...but which he needs to do better, I think, with the U.N...AND to criticize it...especially its record of allowing serious human rights abusers tell the rest of the world what constitutes a human rights abuse...I am ALL ABOUT INCLUSION as a means of engaging aggressors in a democratic context -- as has CLEARLY been a success in Great Britain with the IRA and the Ulster Unionists -- but there also needs to be voices of reason who say that Syria is not the best country to tell ANYONE what is constituted in a human rights
abuse:):):):):)...and out of that democratic engagement, I think, we give autocrats experience with the BENEFITS and HONESTY and GOOD FOR THEIR COUNTRIES AND FOR THE WORLD that come with democratic engagement, which is EXACTLY why Gerry Adams -- a spokesman for a former terrorist group now-turned-political-party -- worked so hard in the last couple of years to KEEP THE PEACE IN IRELAND ON TRACK, a REMARKABLE development, to say the least, from a time when Gerry Adams and Sinn Fein RATIONALIZED murder for political ends...

So...there is MUCH PRECEDENT to believe that such a strategy could besuccessful...as well as the Europeans BRIEF success in squelching the Iranians' pursuit of nuclear weapons which was SADLY COMPOUNDED by a boisterous U.S. threatening war with it...what a foolish mistake:):):):):):):)....

And...it's just a mistake:):):):):):):)...and...like
Newsweek:):):):):):):)...the quicker the President recognizes that:):):):):):):)...the quicker we get to BETTER solutions:):):):):):):)...

3) The President's and the Administration's GENUINE concern for America's interests in global affairs:):):):):):):)...and their hopefully moving past the illusion that somehow their just going to be
able to BEAT world opinion in their direction:):):):):):):)...a foolish bet, that's for damned sure:):):):):):):)...and the Administration's willingness to point out the shortcomings in international institutions like the U.N.:):):):):) (though I somehow doubt going after Kofi Annon will do very much more, at all, than increase the shrill of Bush sitting for war-crimes talk amongts liberals:):):):):):):) (which is a pretty serious risk for the President who DID violate international law over the course of this war:):):):):):):)...I don't think it will go this way:):):):):):):)...but going after Kofi Annon will surely INCREASE that likelihood, rather than decrease it:):):):):):):)...and likely do NOTHING to promote the welfare of those hurt by the mistakes in the oil-for-food program -- except bring general awareness of the issue -- and do MUCH to undermine conservative credibility on the issue, as it already has with me...

4) Making the case that though America's willingness to lead military efforts when they are needed might, at times, make them a bit TOO EXCITED to take on such missions:):):):):):):)...that the resistance to sharing the burden equitably on such missions by the Japanese and Germans and French, etc., undermine THEIR CREDIBILITY AS WELL:):):):):):):)...a truism that gets MUCH DISCUSSION in the U.S...especially amongst conservatives:):):)...but less and needed discussion in places like the U.N.:):):):):):):)...

...and saving the talk of militarism for when it is more useful...like
in the case of a REAL IMMINENT THREAT from the North or Iran on Seoul or Israel...like if North Korea or Iran is OVERTLY THREATENING IMMEDIATELY OR VERY SOON TO RAIN NUCLEAR IN SEOUL OR TEL AVIV...or to otherwise attack, with missile technology or ground troops, their more democratic neighbors:):):):):)...

5) Sanctions will almost inevitably beconsidered...and the Administration will almost inevitably support them (though they have PLEASANTLY SURPRISED me at times...as with their pleading with Ariel Sharon to back off more aggressive moves in Palestine)...so I have to include them...I don't have much hope that they will work, given what we know about the psychology of the insular, paranoid, seriously-controlling and repressive, militaristic, and seriously manipulative leadership in both Tehran and Pyongyang...Iran is democratic and, thus and on its own merits, less dangerous, I think, than the megalomania of Kim Jong Il...and has fewer capabilities to threaten democratic countries than does the North Korean leadership, according to this Economist article...

Though the Economist suggests them...they will likely have a similar, less serious consequence as the current policy, I'm afraid (I would love for them or war or ANY POLICY to work, frankly...but they just aren't likely to, I'm afraid, given who we are dealing with...and with human nature's tendency to DEFEND itself from perceived attacks, for good or for ill:):):):):):))...

I think bilateral and multilateral talks and inclusion of these countries into institutions like the United Nations are MUCH MORE LIKELY to create changes in their leaderships' behavior (with a VIGOROUS AND ENGAGED debate and discussion about the direction and purposes of the United Nations and other international institutions by conservatives, liberals, and even rogue regimes...this doesn't mean that Kim Jong Il's philosophy of democracy is equally as valid as that of democratic countries like the U.S. OBVIOUSLY:):):):):):):):)...it just means that, like Gerry Adams...the more he's TALKING AND THINKING about democracy...the more he absorbs its values...and the better for ALL OF US, as a consequence...as the truism of contemporary political science that the President has been repeating to President Putin and his neighbors, recently...the more democratic countries are...the more likely that they DON'T go to war with one another...and that they act less aggressively with one another...which, at its root, is the FUNDAMENTAL PURPOSE of our policies towards Iraq, Iran, and North Korea...not declaring war...or imposing sanctions...these are only tools...that either get us CLOSER to that goal...or, as is the unfortunate case today, get us FARTHER AWAY from that goal...

6) The VERY SAVVY and IMPORTANT work and suggestions of the brains behind much of the work in Iraq, right now, that I'm ashamed that I forgot about when I posted very similar versions of this writing on
Ala's blog...

Paul Wolfowitz...

Very soon after the commencement of the Iraq war...As Paul was -- FAR AHEAD of the pack of the very reflective re-thinking of the war going on inside the Administration:):):):):)...ahead Condi's VERY POIGNANT rethinking:):):):):)...and Don Rumsfeld's second thoughts:):):):):)...and Colin Powell's and Tom Ridge's and Richard Clarke's POST-CABINET re-thinking that would have been FAR MORE EFFECTIVELY ENGAGED if it would have had an audience while they were STILL WORKING FOR THE PRESIDENT:):):):):):):)...

Very soon after the war started, Paul suggested that Americans support more open, democratic, and liberal -- "small l" classical, free-thinking, free-expressing liberal, in this sense -- values by financially and otherwise supporting SCHOOLS in Islamic countries like Afghanistan and Iraq to support the nurturing of these kinds of VERY IMPORTANT VALUES in Islamic cultures...

And that suggestion is not only a BRILLIANT ONE -- which the Administration, generally, and Paul, specifically, deserve much credit for:):):):):):):)...

But it is one that should be extended, as much as possible to autocracies and dictatorships like Iran and North Korea:):):):):):):):):)...

This would make an IMMENSE DIFFERENCE, if it were possible to implant these institutions in places like North Korea and Iran...But they will ONLY BE POSSIBLE if these states and cultures DO NOT FEEL THREATENED by the Administration and the Western and civilized and democratic world...

A VERY, VERY, VERY good reason to NOT ENGAGE IN A POLICY THAT EMPHASIZES THREATS TO SOLVE PROBLEMS IN THIS OR OTHER PARTS OF THE WORLD...for goodness sakes:):):):):):):):):):)...But THAT IS OK:):):):):):):):):):):):):)...because MISTAKES GET MADE:):):):):):):):):):):)...and that is the nature of international and domestic policy:):):):):):):):):):):):)...

It is not only OK that mistakes get made over the course of these very difficult policy choices...it is COMMON and NORMAL in ON-GOING AND NEVERENDING learning curve of international (and domestic) policy:):):):):):):)......and acknowledging that instead of assuming bad faith is MUCH MORE CONSTRUCTIVE, I believe, to preventing similar mistakes in the future than trying to get folks' heads...

For the President:):):):):):):)...and for Newsweek:):):):):):):)...and, this time, the President needs to follow this media organization's lead, I think:):):):):):):)...

That would be THE MOST IMPORTANT SUGGESTION I would have for the President...it's not his strength, unfortunately...and, as I've written earlier, it is VERY DIFFICULT to do, publicly...so I TOTALLY feel for George in this respect:):):)...but I'd do it anyway...

Apologize...

Apologize to the world for trying to make it do your bidding just because you say so...and because you're arrogant enough to believe that you know what's best for the world without consulting it...Apologize to Iraqis and American soldiers and international relief workers and other service-people, Iraqi law-enforcement, non-profit workers, commercial workers, and to the families of those whose lives were lost over the course of this world...whose lives were ALL put in FAR TOO MUCH UNNECCESSARY RISK, as a consequence of the President's arrogance to believe that forming substantial international coalitions
and consensus did not/do not matter...for disregarding international institutions, like the United Nations General Assembly and Security Council...as well as important NATO allies, like France and Germany:)...

Apologize to the North Koreans -- the leadership and the population -- as well as the Iranian leadership and people for persistently THREATENING them, militarily, to get our way on a whole host of matters
-- specifically, the renunciation of nuclear programs -- that has CLEARLY BEEN COUNTERPRODUCTIVE to anyone REALLY CONCERNED WITH DEALING HONESTLY WITH THIS THREAT...and not just defending the President and his mistakes...a policy of threats that leads those cultures, populations, and states to CLOSE DOWN, DIG IN, and PREPARE FOR BATTLE...not the state that you need so same folks in to learn and
support and nurture the values of free and open and liberal ("small l" classical liberal ) and democratic cultures:):):):):):):):):):):):)...

And apologize to the American people...for both giving deceptive reasons for going into Iraq...and for not being more thoughtful about how such a war might be engaged to ensure that many, many, many fewer American, Iraqi and other lives would be lost over its course...and to American liberals, in particular, for treating them like opponents, at worst, and less than equitable partners, at best, when developing international and domestic policy:):):):):):):):)...

I would then work with international relief organizations, fundraising, and other groups to fund emergency food relief for North Koreans, specifically, during bilateral and multilateral talks...to make clear that such talks and efforts in the region are AUTHENTICALLY about how much Americans CARE about the North Koreans -- and about themselves -- and not about how they want to SCARE or REPRESS THEM STILL FURTHER THAN THEY ARE ALREADY REPRESSED (learning the lessons from the very serious problems we've encountered in Iraq:):):)...

I would also continue to offer up as much free and paid for and otherwise supported access to both Iranians and North Koreans (there is more precedent for Iranians enjoying American culture...but if there's a way to get it to North Koreans, then I am all for it:):):):):) to products and media of American culture:):):):):)...the pink fashions and rap music that Iranians have, reportedly, been indulging in:):):):):):):)...and rebelling against their parents and their parents' generation with:):):):):):):)...the access to American, British, South Korean, Egyptian, Iraqi, Japanese, French, German, Spanish, Scandanavian, Swiss, Italian, Nigerian, Kyrgyz, Russian, Christian and other missionary (my South Korean friends tell me that Christian missionaries have been VERY IMPORTANT ambassadors to South Korean culture from America...and might have similar influence in the North, though, as with China, with significantly more risk, I'm sure, in a Communist dictatorship...and other more democratic media, movies, music, books, scholarship, and more open culture:):):):):):):)...

As Joe Nye -- the Dean of the Harvard School of Government and my FAVORITE international policy scholar -- makes clearer in his most recent works:):):):):):):)...

While hard power -- in the form of military and economic force and sanctions -- can be useful in international diplomacy (and I would add...for some purposes...that have important tradeoffs with other purposes...meaning they are discreet tools for certain efforts -- like limiting regimes' access to weapons of mass destruction -- while distorting relationships needed for other efforts -- for democratization, for instance...or for extradition of or for reducing or removing support for terrorists....or for trade...or for improving openess and linkages for American and Western and democratic and non-democratic media, music, books, scholarship, internet, etc...or for solving A WHOLE HOST of serious international problems...that require
STRONG OVERALL RELATIONSHIPS, first and foremost, to tackle so many important and necessary issues, simultaneously, without trading off issues of importance with one another...rather than DISCREET and often COUNTERPRODUCTIVE efforts at forcing regimes' hands on issues that are not of immediate and truly imminent threat, as I see no evidence, thusfar, including from this Economist article, that Iran or North Korea really are...

As Joe makes clear...

Soft power -- or more direct diplomacy, study abroad programs -- especially programs that allow young folks from these countries to study in America in AS BIG A NUMBERS AS POSSIBLE and that sharing and genuine exchange of our more open culture and even others' more closed cultures -- are FAR UNDERVALUED in the current context...and need to be revisited by American and world leaders, generally...but definitely in situations of the most serious risk of escalation, as Iran and North Korea and Iraq are proving to be:):):):):):)...

And soft efforts to encourage, teach, share, and otherwise nurture democratic values in these countries...through schools -- as Paul Wolfowitz, the current World Bank chairman and one of President Bush's most important intellectual advisors over the course of this war in Iraq suggested VERY, VERY, VERY WISELY in Islamic countries...like Iran, say:):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...through open and as freely accessed as possible...internet...press...and other news media (the Economist making its premium content freely accessable is a WELCOME AND WONDERFUL MOVE IN THIS DIRECTION:):):):):):):):):):)...I've been waiting to brag on them about this ever since I encountered it:):):):):):):)...music...movies...television...advertising (as much as this just PISSES OFF LIKE ALL HELL traditionalists in developing and autocratic and repressive cultures:):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...fuck 'em, I say:):):):):):):):):):):):)...I don't have ANY FUCKIN' PROBLEMIN THE FUCKIN' WORLD with Islamists and Communists and various autocrats and dictatorships and closed and more traditional cultures being pissed off with Americans and others using and celebrating their First Amendment Rights:):):):):):):):):)...I also happen to think that Afghanis can learn to tolerate desecration of the Koran, as well, by the way:):):):):):):):)...even as Americans also learn to respect, preserve, and appreciate the Koran, Islamic tradition and culture, and Arab and South Central Asian cultures, generally:):):):):):):)...but that's for another post:):):):):):):):)...

And if we NEED to use weapons and sanctions...We can still do so when we might think we might need to...but not LEAD with such a policy, thus playing trump cards that we cannot quickly replace or get back and, in doing so, at each turn, REVERSING a VERY
IMPORTANT GAME called, "How to facilitate ALL OF HUMANITY adopting the HIGHEST VALUES of ALL OF HUMANITY":):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

I am listening to Rachel Yamagata's I Want You, by the way, which is REALLY, REALLY FUN, by the way:):):):):):):):):):):):):)...especially for Rachel, who is, generally, so MELANCHOLY and MAUDLIN:):):):):):):):):):):):):)...definitely check her out:):):):):):):):):):):)...

I'll keep working on it, everyone:):):):):):):)...

I'm sure everyone is TERRIBLY RELIEVED that I am on the case:):):):):):):):):):):)...who else could write and talk about the possibilities of nuclear capacity with so many GODDAMN SMILEYS, YOU SMIRKY, DISRESPECTFUL, RECKLESS, YOUNG SUM BITCH:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)

:):):):)...

Yup:):):):):):):):):):):)...

That's me:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

International policy scholar/problem solver/swiss army knife of intellectuals extraordinaire:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

If you got to the end of this post, by the way...

I REALLY ADMIRE YOUR TENACITY:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...and DETERMINATION:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

To get to solutions in tough international and domestic policy and people issues:):):):):):):):):):):)...

Just like me:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

If you've never heard the Walela Cherokee drum version of Amazing Grace, by the way:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

You are REALLY MISSING OUT ON LIFE:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

Have a OUT-OF-THIS-WORLD DAY, EVERYONE:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)...

Love,
Ben

Sunday, May 15, 2005

What have I done wrong, do you think?...An open forum:):):)...

I would do this on Tripod, where folks don't have to register to post comments:):):)...

But I can't reliably post on Tripod these days (it takes between 1 and 15 posts of a single posts, generally, to make sure that a post gets up and doesn't just disappear on me:):):)...Blogspot posts stuff late (which is why I have the RSS/Newsfeed link up, so people can see posts more in real time:):):):):):)...but at least I know that it will post every time:):):):):)...

I'll try to post this on Tripod, too, when I get a chance:):):)...because I REALLY want feedback on this:):):):):)...

OK:):):)...here's the deal:):):)...

I feel like such a fuck-up with this whole situation with my friend, Brandi...

I don't know what I did to fuck up...

I just know that she's not talking with me right now...

And hasn't been for more than a month, now:(...

So:):):)...

Here's the deal:):):)...

Brandi stopped talking with me...for the most part...after a conflict that we had about her husband...

Brandi and I have grown farther apart -- to my total dismay -- since Greg and her started dating...

Which is REALLY UPSETTING to me since I've worked SO HARD to work through jealousy and doubts and anger and frustation with the situation to be as ABSOLUTELY SUPPORTIVE OF HER AND HER MARRIAGE AS I CAN POSSIBLE MUSTER:):):)...

I've never met Greg...which is a decision by Brandi that has made it INCREDIBLY DIFFICULT to be more supportive...

Especially when other than the VERY AND CENTRALLY IMPORTANT FACT that she repeats OFTEN AND SINCERELY that she REALLY LOVES HIM:):):):):):)...

Other than this VERY IMPORTANT QUALITY OF BRANDI'S FEELINGS FOR GREG:):):):):):):)...

That...other than that...she's said NOTHING, for the most part -- other than the fact that he would change lightbulbs without her asking -- NOTHING very positive AT ALL about him:(...

Now...at the time that Brandi told me this...I told her that I thought she should go find someone who really inspired her and who would REALLY make me jealous:):):):):):)...because he would be such a STELLAR CATCH that I would KNOW FOR SURE AND WITHOUT A DOUBT (AND SHE WOULD TOO:):):)...that she was TOTALLY, HEAD-OVER-HEELS, WITHOUT A QUESTION, TOTALLY IN LOVE with the guy she was going to marry:):):):):):):)...

Brandi didn't take that advice, obviously:):):):):):)...

Much of that, I think, being that Brandi loved Greg, in many ways, because he was NOT ME:):):):):):):)...so WHY IN THE WORLD, she must be asking herself, would she follow MY ADVICE:):):):):):):)...when she is looking, primarily, for someone who is NOT ME:):):):):):):)...

So...

Anyway:):):):):):)...

I've TOTALLY and SINCERELY and AS AUTHENTICALLY AS I CAN/COULD MUSTER tried to support Brandi and Greg and their marriage...

DESPITE...

1) That I've never been able to meet Greg...a decision that Brandi -- and I assume Greg -- have made for as long as Greg has been in Brandi's life, which I have been around for, the entire time:)...

2) That Brandi has said VERY FEW GREAT things about Greg (other than the TERRIBLY AND VERY MUCH IMPORTANT FACT that she REALLY LOVES HIM:):):):):):)...which I TOTALLY SUPPORT:):):):):):):)...and hope grows for as long as both of them shall live:):):):):):):):):):):)...till death do they part:):):):):):):)...if possible:):):):):):):)...

3) That I wasn't invited to the wedding despite working harder than probably ANY EX-BOYFRIEND ON EARTH:):):):):):):) to support her and a husband-to-be-now-husband-for-life-hopefully:):):):):):):)...and all of the choices that they make with those lives:):):)...

4) That I've not been able to SEE BRANDI PERSONALLY for MORE THAN A YEAR now:):):):):)...despite the fact that I've worked harder than Brandi, by far, and than most ex's, I'm sure, to support both her marriage and our friendship than most...

I've had MANY FRIENDS tell ex's that they can't talk with them after they get married...

And every time I've heard it I've thought WHAT A PATHETICALLY INSECURE BASE ON WHICH TO FORM A MARRIAGE:):):):):):):)...either you got love, baby...either you've got REAL TRUST :):):):):):):)...which doesn't have to shut ANYONE out:):):):):):):)...

Or you got nothing:):):):):):):)...you've got a relationship and/or a marriage based around fear and insecurity and desperation and a lot of quicksand:(...

So...

Despite these things...I've done everything I've known how to do to support Ms. Fisher...and her marriage...

And EVERY STEP ALONG THE WAY EVERYTHING I DO gets interpreted as JEALOUS EX-BOYFRIEND SEEKING TO UNDERMINE CURRENT RELATIONSHIP...

It gets REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, REALLY OLD...let me tell ya...

So...

I talk with Brandi about this...or, rather, I email her:):):)...

I tell her that despite ALL OF THE BULLSHIT that I've dealt with her and with Greg on this one, that I have still completely and as unconditionally as I can muster (given so many obstacles put in my path) have supported her and Greg and her marriage:):):):):):):)...

AND...that I am tired of eating the bullshit on this one...

That Brandi needs to get over or deal with WHATEVER insecure/jealous bullshit is going on in her relationship...

And learn to be A GROWN-UP and have close friendships with guys even when she is married...and that Greg needs to learn to be a GROWN-UP TOO...

And for about a month, now, Brandi will not email or talk with me...

And I am TOTALLY AT A LOSS...

WHAT ELSE CAN I DO?...

I know...I know...nothing...

Either Brandi and Greg BOTH learn to grow up on this one...

Or I'm just stuck with a best friend who can't learn to be a mature, secure, married woman who can trust herself and whose husband can trust her that she is NOT GOING TO CHEAT with her ex-boyfriend...

And I just have to learn to live with that fact of life...that very sad, pathetic, unreflective of Brandi's or ANYONE's highest, best self...

And wait until she figures this one out THE HARD WAY...and then wait to talk with her then (which I'm pretty sure, on both counts, will happen, if she doesn't deal with this with ME, first and foremost...and with Greg, importantly to her relationship, I would assume)...

I know...I know...why would want to continue to work at being friends with someone when they treat you like this?...

For several reasons...

First...

Brandi was my BEST FRIEND -- long before we dated...and then while we dated...and then AFTER we dated -- for almost 9 years, now...we started hanging out in the summer of 1996...

I told her more and shared more with her than anyone else -- including my parents and my best friends other than Brandi -- than I told or shared with ANYONE else...

And so...when you get that close to a person...it hurts LIKE HELL when they pull away...

Which is EXACTLY what's happened here...

Even though I've felt/still feel that the sharing I did was EXACTLY the kind of sharing that Brandi needed to hear...

ESPECIALLY since it meant that she was SHITTING ON ME so that she and Greg would not have to deal with the fucked up parts of their own relationship that I HAVE NO SERIOUS OR CONTROLLING INFLUENCE OVER, that I know of...

So...I don't talk with her...I don't email her...I give her TOTAL space for almost a month now...

DESPITE...

And this is A REALLY BIG FUCKIN' DESPITE for me...

DESPITE THE FACT that when I share with her that my grandma that I am closest to...and that Brandi was WELCOMED (and is STILL WELCOMED) with open arms by, as my friend, as much as my ex-girlfriend that spent several Thanksgivings and Christmases with her...

That this grandma is dealing, now, with a terminal illness...and would probably like to see her, at some point, when she's in Wichita (which was pretty frequently, the last time she and I talked about it, since her mom and grammy and family are in Wichita)...

And that I was doing MY BEST to deal with the fairly difficult fact of life, as you can imagine, that I was going to lose the grandmother in my life that I have been closest to, since I've EVER been able to remember...a woman who I LOVE DEARLY and WILL MISS TERRIBLY...

Brandi says nothing...

Not a thing...

Not a couple words of sympathy...

Not, "I'll go check on her as soon as I can"...

Not, "I'll see what I can do"...

Nada...nothing...not a fuckin' word...

Despite the fact...that NO MATTER WHAT GRUDGE Fisher has with me...for whatever bullshit or good reasons that she might have...

WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD THIS EXTEND TO MY GRANDMOTHER...who loves her...and who may be dying...and who'd probably VERY MUCH like to see her, when she gets a chance...

...or my stepmom...who is opening a coffee shop...a venture that Brandi talked about, looked into, and researched for almost as long as I've known her...and probably would really appreciate whatever help Ms. Fisher might be able to offer...

Look...

Brandi...if you're reading...

For the last and final time, Fisher...

I'M NOT TRYING TO UNDERMINE YOUR MARRIAGE...

I TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY SUPPORT YOU AND GREG AND YOUR MARRIAGE...so MUCH so that I was hurt that I wasn't invited to your wedding...I've been hurt that I can't meet Greg...or see you or you two together...or just be a NORMAL part of yours and my life:):):):):):):)...

I feel like the fag in the family who all the bigots won't let meet their children for fear that if I'm a homosexual than I must be a pedophile too...or WHATEVER STUPID FUCKIN' RATIONALIZATION that people have for being such insecure, scared, fragile little bitches...

I am your friend, Brandi...and I've been trying to be your friend since day one that I met ya...and sometimes being a friend means telling you shit that you don't like to hear...

In fact, THAT IS EXACTLY how you know that someone is a friend...that they tell you WHATEVER is on their minds...good...bad...ugly...I listen to it, too...

And...in this case...not only am I NOT TRYING TO UNDERMINE YOUR RELATIONSHIP...

I'm trying, honestly, to shore up the places in OUR FRIENDSHIP that you have let slip so that you can do whatever the fuck it is that you and Greg are doing with your relationship...

I love you, hon...I love you as my best friend...and not as a boyfriend...I love you EXACTLY as a best friend or a good friend or a friend that has known your whiny little ass for as long as I've known it...is supposed to love their friends...

Meaning...that if I think there's something up...in OUR FRIENDSHIP, if not in your relationship...

Then I NEED TO BE ABLE TO TELL YOU THAT, FOR GOODNESS FUCKIN' SAKES...

THAT IS WHAT FRIENDSHIP LOOKS LIKE, GODDAMNIT...

And not being able to tell you that shit means that I can't be an honest, more authentic friend to you...

And I just can't fuckin' do that, Fisher...

I gotta be real...to you...to me...to Greg...to everyone...

I gotta be real...

And I need you to be real with me, too, and CUT OUT THE BULLSHIT, Brandi...

Now...

This is where I need feedback...

What am I fucking up, right now...

And Brandi...since you know the situation better than anyone else...you can be the first one to offer up advice:)...

And everyone else too:):):):):):)...

You can comment at the bottom of this post:):):)...you can email me at the emails on my profile...which are benfrankln@yahoo.com and bfrankln@hotmail.com...you can comment on my tripod blog at Building a Better World

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You can communicate with me HOWEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT (short of sending me Unabomber and/or anthrax mail:):):):):):):)...

And please share your thoughts/feelings/impressions/opinions:):):):):):):)...good..bad...ugly...opinions that are supportive:):):)...opinions that SLAM me:):):)...opinions I'll like:):):):):):)...opinions I won't:):):):):):):)...

Just share them:):):):):):):)...

Please:):):):):):):)...

Cause if there's something I'm not seeing, here, on this one:):):):):):):)...I want to see it:):):):):):):)...

Thanks:):):):):):):)...

I'll await your ideas:):):):):):):)...

Love,
Ben